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Feb 4, 2026 20 min

EP11: Your Dating Problem Isn’t Men, It’s Low Standards

from Girl, We Grown Now Hosted by Victoria

If dating feels frustrating, exhausting, or disappointing, this episode is your reality check. In this conversation, we unpack why the issue is not men, bad luck, or timing. It is low standards disguised as patience, empathy, or potential. We talk about energetic minimums and maximums, how over-giving creates imbalance, and why settling feels familiar but never fulfilling. This episode is for the woman who has done the inner work, knows she wants more, and is ready to stop negotiating with herself in dating and in life. You will learn: The difference between standards and expectations Why low minimums attract inconsistent partners How energetic maximums protect your time and self-respect What it actually means to choose better without becoming bitter This is not about becoming rigid or closed off. It is about becoming clear, grounded, and intentional. If this resonates, share it with a woman who needs this reminder and follow The WAG Diaries for weekly conversations on growth, confidence, and becoming her. CONNECT: Instagram (Personal): @byvictorianicole Instagram (Podcast): @thewagdiariespodcast TikTok: @byvictorianicole Linktree: linktr.ee/byvictorianicole

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EP11: Your Dating Problem Isn’t Men, It’s Low Standards

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  1. 0:10 Introduction to the WAG Lifestyle
  2. 0:42 February: The Month of Self-Love
  3. 2:50 Understanding Energetic Minimums and Maximums
  4. 7:44 The Importance of First Impressions
  5. 13:39 Setting Your Standards
  6. 15:06 Defining Non-Negotiables and Deal Breakers
  7. 16:10 Communicating Standards Clearly
  8. 17:48 Building Wealth, Abundance, and Glow
  9. 18:40 Conclusion: It’s Your Minimums That Matter

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