EP189: Why Does “Disrespect” Cut So Deep?

In this episode, Kreed delves into the feelings of disrespect that parents often experience when their adult children assert their independence, linking these feelings to unresolved childhood traumas. The discussion emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own emotional triggers and the need for healing to foster healthier relationships. Kreed  encourages parents to reflect on their past experiences and to seek support in their journey towards emotional safety and connection with their children.TakeawaysThe feeling of disrespect often stems from unresolved childhood issues.Parents may interpret their adult child's independence as disrespect due to past experiences.Dysregulation in adult children can be misinterpreted as disrespect by parents.Control in parenting often arises from a desire for emotional safety.Respect demanded through control is actually fear-based, not love-based.Reactivity in parents can signal deeper emotional issues from their past.Self-regulation is a skill that can be learned and practiced.Estrangement can reveal underlying childhood wounds that need attention.Support and healing are crucial for both parents and children in estranged relationships.www.TheEstrangedHeart.comEmail: [email protected] with Kreed: https://theestrangedheart.com/services(private coaching, mediation, support groups, webinars, etc.)THE HEART COLLECTIVEEstranged Moms ONLY - https://theheartcollective.app.clientclub.net/communities/groups/estranged-momsReconciled Moms ONLY - https://theheartcollective.app.clientclub.net/communities/groups/estranged-heart-membersTo support the podcast and Kreed’s work with estranged and reconciled parents and adult children: https://buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere