EP231: Stop Trying to Fix Yourself: The Real Power of Sound Healing | Beto Gonzales

"The universe gives you what you are, not what you want.” — Beto GonzalesIn this episode:What sound healing really is—and how vibration supports nervous system regulationWhy trying to “fix” yourself can actually block transformationThe power of beginner’s mind and dropping expectationsHow trust and surrender allow your life (and healing) to unfold organicallyGet your free 7-day trial to the FateCreator life coaching app!In today's episode, I sit down with my friend Beto—sound healer, yoga teacher, and someone who deeply embodies what he teaches—to explore a radically different approach to healing. We talk about what sound healing actually is, how vibration works on the body and nervous system, and why so many of us unknowingly block our own growth by trying so hard to optimize, fix, and perfect ourselves. This conversation moves beyond the surface-level “wellness trends” and into something much deeper: trust, surrender, and allowing life to unfold without gripping so tightly to outcomes.If you’ve been doing all the work—therapy, coaching, yoga, breathwork—and still feel like you’re chasing healing instead of receiving it, this episode will land. We dive into the concept of beginner’s mind, how expectations can disconnect you from the experience you came for, and why darkness isn’t something to escape but something that can reveal your own inner light. This isn’t about becoming better. It’s about coming home to who you already are.Connect with Meg:Free 7-day trial to unlimited coaching tools!Follow Meg on InstagramFollow The Create Your Fate Podcast on InstagramTake your FREE Enneagram TestSubscribe to Meg's newsletterDisclaimerConnect with Beto:Follow Beto on InstagramRetreat with Meg and Beto in Bali July 2026