EP289: {Special Series} What it's like to be an Enneagram Nine - Heart, Mind, and Soul with Taylor Murphy- The Peacemaker

The Enneagram 9 is the Adaptive Peacemaker. Got conflict? They don't want it and will go out of their way to avoid in, in their quest to maintain peace and harmony at any cost. Which sometimes causes them to go along with others' wishes in relationships or career situations even when it doesn't meet their needs.But this go-along-to-get-along attitude can lead them to feel resentment towards others and even themselves, and this quest for peace can leave them energetically bankrupt and looking like a horizontal sloth, belly up with Ho Hos at the ready, and binging Netflix for days. So how can Enneagram 9s learn to better deal with their internal and external conflicts to elevate themselves to the next best level in their lives?Today on the show, my friend Taylor Murphy joins me to walk us through her life as an Enneagram Type 9. She shares how working with me to learn about her Enneagram Tritype has helped her understand her past struggles and embrace her gifts for approaching life instead of wishing she could change them. Listen in as she walks us through recent scenarios that required her to use her 1 and 8 wings to walk away from relationships and business opportunities that weren't right for her. Plus, how she's using her podcast to help other women define success in their own lives. What You Will Learn Why Enneagram 9s are often mistypedWhy 9s become stubborn if you try to force them into a box or push them into doing something they don't want toHow an Enneagram 9s quest for peace can lead them into energetic bankruptcyThe reason Enneagram 9s can sometimes find themselves numbing out for days to NetflixWhy Enneagram 9s often trade long-term peace for temporary harmony Why Enneagram 9s will sometimes follow someone else's plan for their lives instead of stepping into their own dreamsConnect with Taylor MurphyLife. With a Side of Business:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/life-with-a-side-of-business/id1635430467Taylor on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/bytaylormurphy/?hl=enConnect with TracyTracy’s Website:http://tracyomalley.com/Tracy on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tracy_omalley/Tracy on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/tracy.omalleyTracy on Twitter:https://twitter.com/TracyOMallTracy on LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracy-o-malley/ResourcesYOUR ENNEAGRAM TYPE BLUEPRINT:https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeDownload your FREE Enneagram Guide:https://www.tracyomalley.com/workwithmeApply for VIP 1:1 Enneagram Coaching:http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Book an Enneagram Kickstart Session:http://tracyomalley.com/workwithme/Special Series: Getting to Know Each of the Enneagram Types on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582Review The Leadership Formula on Apple Podcasts:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-leadership-formula-podcast-enneagram-success/id1491541582Email [email protected]