EP30｜热烈而矛盾的母爱：共读《关于女儿》，聊聊原生家庭、生育选择和养育成本

关于嘉宾 CC：主业大厂程序员，生育一个九个月的女儿此木：主业图书管理员，副业小红书博主/撰稿人，生育一个三岁的女儿小红书ID：此木爱生活。分享写作、阅读、瑜伽，欢迎感兴趣的朋友关注本期伴奏片头片尾：Stand By Me - Ben E King - Seal - Soul 本期提到的音乐《是妈妈是女儿》 - 黄绮珊,希林娜依高本期提到的书影《关于女儿》金惠珍《82年生的金智英》金惠珍《俗女养成记》《Regretting Motherhood》（中译名：最好的决定）梅根·多姆（编）《成为母亲的选择》奥娜·多纳特播客及视频跳岛FM：96 隐秘的、共享的、切身的：生育，这个成为母亲的选择当个事儿：关于生育损伤，我们需要看见的不止这些…… | vol.55 自习室：11 坦诚面对生育焦虑｜这场大雨，不只淋在你一个人头上时间轴 0:33 欢迎两位90后母亲和我们共读《关于女儿》 2:58 这是一本母亲视角的小说：关于母亲的期待、女儿的自我以及养老困境 6:31 茶令的阅读体验：时常反思对于自己的选择，母亲是欣然接受还是委屈隐忍 7:47 CC的阅读体验：母亲/女儿双视角带入，思考母女关系、女性人生意义以及在社会不公面前如何保护女儿 13:37 现代社会里，血缘是不是还是唯一判定亲人的条件？ 18:50 母亲和女儿存在天然的斗争？此木爱女儿，却也时常嫉妒女儿 23:26 书中母亲和女儿无法互相理解的局面，来自日积月累的沉默 29:19 隔辈亲：羡慕女儿拥有的来自家人的“加倍”的爱 34:00 此木的育儿观：三岁建规矩，六岁建认知，青春期后需要放手 39:46 作为母亲需要建立自己的空间，而不是把所有的期待压在女儿身上 43:26 母亲无微不至的照顾和奉献，曾让CC感受到巨大压力 50:40 茶令和Zoi在生育选择面前的思考，焦虑和害怕 1:00:07 为什么成为母亲：CC和此木的生育选择 1:30:01 母职惩罚：CC因生育错过晋升 1:32:58 母亲的身份和自我的身份会有冲突吗？ 1:37:00 性别倾向：此木因不希望孩子面临自己经历过的女性困境而曾想要男孩 1:44:14 此木的期待：女儿独立，爱与被爱，内心富足；但如果期待落空，此木愿意放手 1:55:28 虽然因生育选择而困扰，但不需要因为女性独有的创造生命的能力而感到不幸 1:56:30 希望女性可以做出遵循本心的选择。祝所有母亲母亲节快乐~

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