EP317: How Your Enneagram Type Shows Up in the Bedroom...the Good, the Not So Great, and Downright Delicious in Your Sex Life

"You approach sex from your viewpoint based on your Enneagram type. And where things go sideways is most of the time, we expect our partners to share our perspective and our views." But there are nine basic ways to view sex, and none is wrong! Understanding this can help you accept not only your approach to sex but can also help you accept the intimate perspectives of the partner you share a life with—and a bed. So how can we use the Enneagram to gain greater insight into ourselves and our loved ones for more intimacy and to be better lovers? Today, on "Lead with the Enneagram," we're delving into the intimate (and often unexplored) topic of how your Enneagram type influences your approach to sex. I'll walk you through how each Enneagram type—from the lusty lover to the control freak—shows up in the bedroom and what that means for you and your partner. Listen in for expert insight and practical advice on using the Enneagram to gain a deeper understanding of yourself and your lover to revolutionize how you approach your sex life and create healthier, more satisfying relationships in the bedroom and beyond. Let's be honest, S-E-X is a big part of our lives and romantic partnerships. If you feel like you're struggling or need some guidance, I'd love to work with you and your partner to help make your intimate relationship a beautiful and true expression of who you are. Find out more at TracyO'Malley.com in the work with me section. What You Will Learn How Enneagram type 1 (The "Sinning Saint") can embrace their carefree side to up their game for more spontaneity and FUN in the bedroomHow Enneagram type 2 (The "Sexy Seducer") can use their growth number to heat things up and lean into a healthy balance between giving and receiving with no hidden expectationsHow Enneagram type 3 (The "Awesomely Orgasmic") can have a more satisfying experience by shifting from focusing on goals to a heart-centered exchange of loveWhy the Enneagram 4 is considered the "Romantic Romeo or Juliet" and why a romantic relationship with them can be magicalHow Enneagram 5s ("The Lonely Lover") can communicate with their partners for more connection in their romantic relationshipsHow Enneagram Sixes (The "Loyal Lover") can keep the self-doubt out of the bedroom to fully connect with their partner emotionally and physicallyHow Enneagram 7s (The "Spontaneous Suitor") can lean into the moment for a more balanced and fulfilling experience in your intimate relationshipsWhy Enneagram8s (The "Lusty lover") need to find a partner that matches their intensity for a RED-HOT love connection in the bedroom (but remember power is nothing without true love)How (The "Sensual Sweetheart") Enneagram 9 can use their voice to nurture their needs (and try new things) for long-term intimacy with their sexual partnerConnect with Tracy Tracy’s WebsiteTracy on InstagramTracy on FacebookTracy on TwitterTracy on LinkedInResourcesPillow Talks on Apple PodcastsSex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life Sex and the Enneagram: A Guide to Passionate Relationships for the 9 Personality Types Purchase Your Enneagram BlueprintApply to work with TracyBook an Enneagram Kickstart SessionEmail [email protected]