Ep46 The Love That Keeps Us Sane w/ Fr. Marc Foley

"Holiness consists simply in doing God's will, and being just what God wants us to be."~ St. Thérèse of LisieuxThis Whole Life returns to its roots! In episode 46, Kenna is joined by Fr. Marc Foley, OCD, author of the seminal work that led to this very podcast: The Love That Keeps Us Sane: Living the Little Way of St. Thérèse of Lisieux.  Together, Kenna and Fr. Marc delve into the complexities of human nature and God's work in the midst of our messy thoughts, emotions, and relationships. As Fr. Marc explains, St. Thérèse of Lisieux is far more relevant to our 21st century experience than we might initially think. In preparation for our upcoming book study (episodes 47 & 48) on The Love That Keeps Us Sane, Fr. Marc shares insights from his extensive psychological and spiritual experience, emphasizing the value of patience with oneself while working toward greater virtue. The discussion covers topics such as resisting the temptation to create a perfect persona, managing the balance between acceptance without complacency, and interpreting human experiences from a spiritual perspective. We live in a fallen, and often insane, world; it is the love of God lived through us every day that keeps us sane.Fr. Marc Foley, O.C.D. entered the Discalced Carmelites in 1967 as a lay brother and was ordained a priest in 1981. He studied psychology at the Catholic University of America and continued on to receive a Master of Divinity. He later earned M.S. and CAS degrees in Pastoral Counseling at Loyola College in Baltimore. Fr. Foley has served as a parish priest, a postulant director, a director of formation, and a professor. Fr. Marc is currently the prior of the Carmelite monastery in Washington, D.C., a spiritual director, an author, and the publisher of ICS Publications. Get ready for our book study on The Love That Keeps Us Sane by Fr. Marc Foley, OCD: Order your copy here Episode 46 Show NotesChapters:0:00: Introducing Fr. Marc Foley, OCD11:13: Human nature in conflict with itself17:48: Radical Acceptance without Complacency23:01: Temptations as a path to virtue, not just vice32:13: Pay attention to what you desire and you'll find out what you're avoiding42:50: There's no step too big, but a step can be too small50:12: How St. Thérèse's life speaks to us todayQuestions for Reflection & Discussion:What is one thing that stuck out to you from this episode?How have you experienced your own "human nature in conflict with itself"?When have you been discouraged by your failures? When has God's grace broken through and consoled you in your despair?How are your desires an indication of what you might be avoiding?What might St. Thérèse be able to teach you about your own "cloister" life with the people you interact with most?Support the showThank you for listening, and a very special thank you to our community of supporters!Join our email list and never miss an episode or an eventVisit us online at thiswholelifepodcast.com, and send us an email with your thoughts, questions, or ideas.Follow us on Instagram & FacebookInterested in more faith-filled mental health resources? Check out the Martin Center for IntegrationMusic: "You're Not Alone" by Marie Miller. Used with permission.