Episode 018: What to Say When Someone is Devastated

When our friends are hurting we often respond in unhelpful ways, like simply saying "everything happens for a reason" or offering unsolicited advice. Want to know a better way to support friends who are going through difficult times? In this episode we outline how to NOT respond your friend’s suffering and offer a simple guide for a better way. Show Up: Be present for your friend. Don't abandon them in their pain. Shut Up: Listen attentively. Don't try to fix their situation or tell them your own story. Look at the story of Jesus and Lazarus' death as an example: Jesus didn't try to minimize Lazarus' death or offer empty platitudes. He wept with them, showing compassion and sharing their grief.