EPISODE 03 - The ABC's of Abstinence

In this episode, Lanikai explores practical ways to steward your sexuality and maintain abstinence, emphasizing the importance of boundaries, heart posture, and seeking God's guidance. She shares personal insights, biblical principles, and actionable tips for living a Christ-centered life of purity.Key TopicsThe biblical definition of abstinence versus celibacyPractical boundaries to maintain abstinenceThe importance of heart posture and motivationSeeking God's guidance for personal boundariesThe role of wisdom versus permission in self-controlThe significance of being equally yoked in relationshipsAvoiding the trap of building boundaries around current seasonsThe importance of Christlikeness over abstinence as a goalChapters00:00 Introduction and episode overview01:32 God's view of abstinence as stewardship03:02 Difference between abstinence and celibacy04:42 Practical steps to steward sexuality06:46 Biblical basis for boundaries in sex09:48 Personal boundaries and self-control11:25 Avoiding the line: asking God for boundaries13:32 Wisdom vs permission analogy15:52 Dating someone not abstinent: what to consider18:50 Being equally yoked in pursuit of abstinence21:42 Goals: Christlikeness over abstinence22:42 Summary of practical steps for abstinence25:03 Final encouragement and seeking GodSocials@DidSheJustSaySex on all platformsDeezer: https://www.deezer.com/en/show/1003266681Youtube:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLAf1fUOYY8uXDaST_uFtHfsZaW6fxoKUv&si=LKEw90SPn0gXJuS3Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bHFjn3PIVOAX1fDqbtRqL?si=91ab0c9fd27f43e2Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/did-she-just-say-sex/id1896938087Amazon Music: Did She Just Say Sex? Podcast on Amazon MusicThe link for dilemmas & questions:https://forms.gle/h6FfZ8rUTRkZKqvD9If you know someone, or are someone who would be interested in appearing on the podcast - send us a dm @DidSheJustSaySex on Instagram!