Episode 10: The Power of Control: Finding Freedom in What You Can-and Cannot-Change

Welcome back to The Audacity! and can we just say… ten episodes! That’s ten weeks of laughter, deep talks, self-reflection, and audacious honesty. In this milestone episode, Ashton and Amanda get real about something every high achiever wrestles with: the illusion of control.Episode SummaryFrom Taylor Swift’s unshakable comeback to the messy beauty of surrender, this episode dives into what it means to let go of controlling every outcome-whether it’s in relationships, career, or motherhood. Ashton and Amanda open up about how their Enneagram types shape their need for control, the peace that comes from acceptance, and the balance between mastering your mind and surrendering to life’s flow.There’s laughter, vulnerability, a few tangents (of course), and a healthy dose of humor, because growth doesn’t have to be serious all the time.Topics CoveredThe balance between self-mastery and surrenderLetting go of people’s opinions and finding peace in your own truthLearning to pray for peace instead of controlMotherhood moments, mindset resets, and emotional boundariesThe freedom in accepting what you can’t controlFavorite Quotes“The ego says, ‘If I can control this, I’ll be safe.’ The spirit says, ‘If I can surrender, I’ll be free.’”“True control isn’t forcing life to happen your way — it’s mastering your inner world so you can respond with purpose, not panic.”The TakeawayPeace isn’t found in controlling everything-it’s found in trusting yourself, letting go of what’s not yours to carry, and remembering that you always resurface stronger.Connect with Us: Follow The Audacity! on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. Join the conversation on Instagram...we love hearing your takeaways and stories.Send us Fan Mail