EPISODE · Apr 9, 2026 · 1H 17M
Episode 100 - Recognizing Red Flags in Love
from The Unleashed Podcast with James Nunn · host The Unleashed Podcast
Justin Smith is a Tampa-based entrepreneur and the founder of Cray, the dating safety app born out of a devastating experience. After being blindsided by a partner of eight years—a betrayal that nearly destroyed him—Justin spent the next 18 months rebuilding himself and creating a tool that helps others avoid the same fate. Drawing on his background in psychological test publishing and his blunt, forward-thinking approach, he built Cray to teach people how to spot red flags sooner, trust their instincts, and date with clarity instead of chaos. Now he’s on a mission to make safer, smarter dating the norm for everyone.00:00 Introduction to Justin Smith00:13 The Impact of a Toxic Relationship01:32 Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships02:56 The Role of Self-Love in Healing08:10 Trauma and Attachment Styles in Dating16:10 The Challenges of Online Dating18:38 Introducing the Cray Dating Safety App20:16 The State of Modern Relationships24:05 Navigating Dating Intentions31:31 Dating in the Workplace: A Double-Edged Sword33:36 Approaching Women: Tips for Men41:01 The Pursuit of Inner Happiness41:44 Economic Pressures and Declining Birth Rates43:56 The Loneliness Epidemic Among Men47:41 Creating Solutions for Societal Issues49:27 The Importance of Male Role Models52:56 Building Emotional Resilience in Men01:00:48 Teaching Children Problem-Solving Skills01:02:14 The Role of Fathers in Family Dynamics01:05:11 Qualities to Look for in Relationships01:09:43 Creating Safe Spaces for VulnerabilityGet in touch in the comments below 👇 or head to…Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unleashedjiujitsuTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unleashedjiujitsuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/james.nunn.121Email: [email protected]#toxicrelationships #redflags #emotionaltrauma #attachmentstyles #kindnessvsniceness #onlinedating #mentalhealth #fathers #resilience #vulnerability #relationshipadvice #datingadvice #selfawareness #healingjourney #selfgrowth #personaldevelopment #innerwork #breakthecycle #healthyrelationships #emotionalintelligence
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Justin Smith is a Tampa-based entrepreneur and the founder of Cray, the dating safety app born out of a devastating experience. After being blindsided by a partner of eight years—a betrayal that nearly destroyed him—Justin spent the next 18 months rebuilding himself and creating a tool that helps others avoid the same fate. Drawing on his background in psychological test publishing and his blunt, forward-thinking approach, he built Cray to teach people how to spot red flags sooner, trust their instincts, and date with clarity instead of chaos. Now he’s on a mission to make safer, smarter dating the norm for everyone.00:00 Introduction to Justin Smith00:13 The Impact of a Toxic Relationship01:32 Recognizing Red Flags in Relationships02:56 The Role of Self-Love in Healing08:10 Trauma and Attachment Styles in Dating16:10 The Challenges of Online Dating18:38 Introducing the Cray Dating Safety App20:16 The State of Modern Relationships24:05 Navigating Dating Intentions31:31 Dating in the Workplace: A Double-Edged Sword33:36 Approaching Women: Tips for Men41:01 The Pursuit of Inner Happiness41:44 Economic Pressures and Declining Birth Rates43:56 The Loneliness Epidemic Among Men47:41 Creating Solutions for Societal Issues49:27 The Importance of Male Role Models52:56 Building Emotional Resilience in Men01:00:48 Teaching Children Problem-Solving Skills01:02:14 The Role of Fathers in Family Dynamics01:05:11 Qualities to Look for in Relationships01:09:43 Creating Safe Spaces for VulnerabilityGet in touch in the comments below 👇 or head to…Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/unleashedjiujitsuTik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@unleashedjiujitsuFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/james.nunn.121Email: [email protected]#toxicrelationships #redflags #emotionaltrauma #attachmentstyles #kindnessvsniceness #onlinedating #mentalhealth #fathers #resilience #vulnerability #relationshipadvice #datingadvice #selfawareness #healingjourney #selfgrowth #personaldevelopment #innerwork #breakthecycle #healthyrelationships #emotionalintelligence
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