Episode 11 - Why Won't He Love Me the Way I Need to Be Loved?

As a woman, you may have wondered why a man is not loving you the way you want him to. You may get frustrated asking him and this may even lead to a breakup. Reality is: Do you know how to love yourself so that he can seee it within you?  "Love is not something you ask for, love is something you give and it is freely given to you. You can never love anyone from a place of pain/trauma including yourself." - excerpt, "Beyond the Pain." Copyright ©2014 Kemi Sogunle. All Rights Reserved. A man has to see you love yourself first. What you present to him must be authentic/real. If he cannot see you loving yourself first, he cannot love you the way you want to be love or even see it . He may also not have the love for himself yet.  You have to understand that you are who you attract. If you are attracting someone who cannot love you, then you have not loved yourself yet.  He is only going to bring to your awareness the need for you to heal, find and love yourself first. This is why I created the Purposeful Relationship Inner Circle Monthly Membership. A safe community where you can learn to heal, find and love yourself so that you can become the love you wish to attract.  If he does not have true love for himself, he will not know how to love you.  This is the hard truth and reality you must embrace. This is why you have to work on yourself so that he can see you as the love you need. If he does not have it, you will not have to waste your time chasing, begging and pleading with him to stay. You will not become needy,  you will not have to settle for less, you will not become codependent or form trauma bonds with him.  You will simply let him know right from the start that he is not the man for you.  I invite you to join the Purposeful Relationship Inner Circle Monthly Membership and begin to learn to heal, find and love yourself first so that you can become the love you wish to attract and allow a man to see you that love so he can truly complement and be a reflection of the love you deserve to have. Yours truly, Kemi Sogunle www.kemisogunle.com