Episode 12: The Power of Childhood

Send us Fan MailIn this week’s episode of Living in 3D Power, Emma and I unpack the meaning behind that loaded phrase. What starts with a funny moment, Emma pointing at me and declaring that I control her, quickly turns into a soulful exploration of freedom, boundaries, and how adult systems often mirror outdated, hierarchical dynamics rooted in control.Together, we explore:* What it really means to “stay in a child’s place”* Why many leadership styles mimic the worst of parent-child dynamics* How joy, curiosity, and truth-telling are sacred practices—not childish distractionsFrom messy rooms to bedtime injustice, skincare scandals to Anne with an E, this episode is full of laughter, love, and liberatory insight for parents, leaders, and anyone who’s ever been told they talk too much.Chapters03:36 | Introduction and today’s topic04:04 | What is freedom, really?04:50 | The Great Messy Room Debate07:24 | Generational parenting differences09:43 | Epilepsy, structure & bedtime boundaries12:35 | “Stay in a child’s place”: reframing the phrase19:28 | If kids made the rules…24:23 | Do adults really listen to kids?29:04 | Reflections on Anne with an E30:08 | Emotional regulation & unfair treatment32:40 | Trust, discipline & adult advocacy38:17 | Work, play & pacing in childhood44:38 | Secrets, big questions & uncomfortable truths48:28 | Final takeaways: slowing down & making space for playCuriosity Card Prompts for Reflection:* Have you ever heard someone say, “Stay in a child’s place”? What do you think they meant?* What would it be like if kids made the rules for one day?* Do you feel like grownups always listen to kids? Why or why not?* Why do you think some adults are uncomfortable when kids ask big questions?* What’s something you wish adults would stop doing so kids could feel more free?References* Yes Day* Anne with an E* Free resources to help you lead and live authenticallyConnect with MeInstagram: @natural_inclinationYoutube: @naturalinclinationTikTok: Amber SessomsLinkedIn: Dr. Amber M. Sessoms, NCSPBluesky: @ambersessoms.bsky.socialFacebook: Natural InclinationWebsite: www.aninclination.comLike, Comment, Share, EngageIf this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who would love these conversations. Engage with the Curiosity Cards and ask the youth in your life about their experiences because you might be surprised by what you learn. Share your thoughts and reflections in the comments or on social media using #LivingIn3DPower. And, don’t forget to subscribe and stay tuned for next week’s conversation! Get full access to Living in 3D Power at Connect with Me:Instagram: @natural_inclinationYoutube: @naturalinclinationTikTok: Amber SessomsLinkedIn: Dr. Amber M. Sessoms, NCSPBluesky: @ambersessoms.bsky.socialFacebook: Natural InclinationWebsite: www.aninclination.comLike, Comment, Share, EngageIf this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who would love these conversations. Engage with the Curiosity Cards and ask the youth in your life about their experiences because you might be surprised by what you learn. Share your thoughts and reflections in the comments or on social media using #LivingIn3DPower. And, don’t forget to subscribe and stay tuned for next week’s conversation!