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Oct 14, 2026 1 hr 55 min

Episode 141: Lost boys reflection

from Pop Culture Parenting Hosted by Billy Garvey

It’s been tough lately advocating for a world where boys can be supported in becoming men who care for others and themselves too. In this reflection episode you’ll only hear from Billy. The questions and reflections that came in were so vulnerable, powerful and heavy that Nick made the call to hand them to Billy, with the clinical experience this space deserves. What follows is some of the most powerful content the PCP community has ever sent in. We hear from parents raising boys in impossible circumstances finding grace in the smallest moments, from men who carried the weight of looking strong through the worst experiences of their lives, and from a woman who was harmed by lost boys and is now pregnant with a son, trying to understand how to protect him from becoming one. A letter about what happens to lost boys when they grow up and become fathers stops us in our tracks. We end with a child protection worker’s story of Steve Hogan, a man who found more lost boys than anyone she has ever known. It’s a heavy listen. Take a break if you need to, and please reach out if you need someone to talk to. Thank you to Our Watch for supporting this topic and for the important work you do for gender equality and violence protection. For more guidance from the amazing team at Our Watch please check out https://www.ourwatch.org.au/parents-carers To book your free spot at the Apple Sydney live recording on the 22nd of October head to https://www.apple.com/au/today/event For our intimate Melbourne parenting workshop check out https://www.guidinggrowingminds.com/products/p/melbourneworkshop Pop Culture Parenting is created by Guiding Growing Minds, a social enterprise dedicated to changing the future of our kids. Want to support our work and access more content? Become a member of our Patreon community Follow PCP on Instagram Send insights, questions or reflections about this episode to [email protected] Interested in partnering with us? Send us an email to [email protected] Thanks for being a part of the beautiful PCP community! Pop Culture Parenting provides general information, stories, and discussions about parenting and child development. The information shared on this show, and advice from hosts, is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapeutic intervention. Every child and family is unique. Always consult a qualified professional regarding your specific situation. If you’re in crisis or need immediate support, we encourage you to reach out to a mental health service in your area. You can find a list of services at https://raisingchildren.net.au/.

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Billy responds solo to the most moving content PCP has ever received. Raw stories about lost boys, masculinity and what it truly costs when we get this wrong, and why there is still so much reason for hope.

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