Episode 159: When Seeing the Good in Others Becomes Self Abandonment

Leave a text or voice message so we can respondIf you’ve ever obsessed over someone’s potential while ignoring the patterns and reality, this episode is for you.We’re unpacking a hard truth today: sometimes, “seeing the good” is a trauma response and self-abandoment...and it causes more rumination!In this episode, I break down:Why abuse survivors are wired to overlook red flags and overanalyze behaviorHow attachment wounds wire you to be okay with inconsistency and crumbsHow “people can change” keeps you trapped in cognitive dissonanceThe subconscious link between your childhood wounds and adult ruminationWhy your brain clings to answers and why those answers won’t actually set you freeListen through and I'm giving you a powerful reframe to shift out of this cycle, and one practice you can start using today to come back to clarity and self-trust.Set up your Free Call Today! Support the showReady to stop overthinking your past relationship and start feeling like yourself again?Get Your FREE HEALING BUNDLE www.radiatenrise.com and explore coaching programs, self-paced courses, resources, and tools designed to help you break free from emotional abuse, rumination, and self-doubt.✍🏻 Set up a for a FREE Call and discover what's really keeping you stuck, along with the next steps to help you move forward.📧 Questions? Email: [email protected]💬 Come say hi on Instagram or Facebook:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allisonkdagney/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allisonkdagney/Formerly The Emotional Abuse Recovery Podcast