Episode #166 The Missing Piece

Ep. 166 — The Missing Piece   In this episode, I unpack a Type Six Enneathought from the Enneagram Institute and what it really means to go to type 3 and  borrow the inner-directedness and self-respect that finally dissolves the chronic insecurity and lack of faith in ourselves. It's not about becoming someone else. It's about balancing the scales — bringing ourselves back to: our own authority the rules we've made up without realizing it and the way we treat ourselves when no one is watching In this episode, we explore: What it actually means to be inner-directed — and how Sixes outsource authority without noticing The made-up rules we follow like law (and the Facebook group story that helped me catch one of mine) Why "supposed to" is often just a preference in costume Self-respect as balance, not bravado — what high self-respect actually looks like day to day The "Blamey Shameys" — owning mistakes without falling into self-loathing or finger-pointing Why asking for help is the vulnerable, self-respecting move… not the weak one The crucial difference between self-respect and defensiveness A real-time example of working through fear before my husband left for the weekend — and what it made possible A question to take with you: Where am I outsourcing my own authority right now — and what would it look like to take it back? Helpful Links: Sign up for my FREE Series on Confidence or Self Loyalty email series! You can find me on Instagram HERE You can contact me HERE if you have questions or want to chat more about Life Coaching