Episode #171 - What is in the Light?

We've spent the last several episodes talking about the shadow. The parts of ourselves we don't see. The parts we reject. The parts we push away. But what about the opposite? What lives in the light? In this episode, I explore the traits and identities that many Sixes willingly claim as part of who they are: ✨ loyal ✨ responsible ✨ prepared ✨ helpful ✨ truthful ✨ reliable ✨ the questioner ✨ the protector These are real strengths. But they're not the whole story. Because when these qualities become identities instead of abilities, they can become rigid, exhausting, and limiting. In this episode, we explore: Why Sixes often build identity around usefulness and reliability The difference between who you are and what you're good at How loyalty, responsibility, and vigilance can become self-concepts Why "the questioner" isn't the same as inner authority The hidden cost of defining yourself by what you do for others What it means to soften your identity and become more whole This isn't about giving up your strengths. It's about holding them lightly. A question to take with you: Who would I be if I stopped defining myself by what I do for others? Helpful Links: Sign up for my FREE Series on Confidence or Self Loyalty email series! You can find me on Instagram HERE You can contact me HERE if you have questions or want to chat more about Life Coaching