Episode 178: Resistance

Do you ever find yourself experiencing resistance when it comes to taking positive steps to improve your marriage? You resist pausing before saying a hurtful comment to your spouse.You resist reaching out to your spouse when you're feelings are hurt.You resist expressing your love when it feels unreciprocated.You resist taking a long look at yourself and how you are contributing to your issues.You resist letting go of resentment and continue to hold a grudge.These are normal experiences that many people go through.There are a number of reasons you may be experiencing resistance right now.In this podcast episode I break down the 7 most common reasons I see among my clients and give you some specific next steps to take to move yourself forward.Tune in and learn:-what resistance in marriage looks like and how to know if this is where you are-the specific emotions you may be feeling that lead you to not take action-how you see your partner as a cause of your resistance-how past failure can often create resistance to trying again-how your view of yourself can help you overcome resistance-how to avoid shaming yourself if you can't find motivation right awayStaying stuck in a state of resistance will only keep you from experiencing the kind of marriage you truly want.Understanding your resistance and having specific steps to take will help you move forward in a more positive direction. Also mentioned in this episode: There are several ways you can work with me directly if you are looking for help in your marriage right now. Private coaching for couples, private coaching for individuals, and my group program, The Marriage UpGrade. Learn more about the programs I offer here: drchavonne.com