EPISODE 18 | Clients & mentors are MEANT to trigger us!

I think trigger warnings are hilarious! I mean, I get it - some harrowing things require you to form the brace position before they're exposed to us but the idea of trigger warnings lull us into a false sense of security... Like life is going to put TW before it unloads a sh!t-tonne of waste onto our heads from a great height! LOL! The world just DOESN'T work like this! This world is here TO trigger us! And once we embrace this, life feels so much easier! It feels easier - NOT because it stop being so tricky or triggerings - but because we STOP EXPECTING IT TO BE! Mentorship is THE PERFECT place to play with this. Because putting ourselves into mentorship means we're actively seeking-out our triggers.  We're putting ourself into close proximity to people who're working in different paradigms to us - it's going to be triggering on SO many levels! I see some people go into Coaching Containers and relationships and it's a sh!t-show - they feel like they need TW infront of every conversation. But when we learn to USE our Triggers (thank you Trigger-Free Tuesday - I hope you have your tangerines on today, listening to this) we are FREE! Free to learn WHY we're being triggered - THE Entry Level Access Point to our next level of More.  So the next time your Mentor triggers you, TELL HER. She'll already sense what's happening but KNOWS it cannot be alchamised until YOU bring it to the table!  And the next time you have a client, who triggers you (because you're human so of COURSE this is going to happen), lean-in to your support networks and alchamise it - you, your work and your clients results will ROCKET because of your willingness to do this! Life doesn't come with a TW - so instead of trying to avoid the triggers, LEARN what they're here to teach you so that you can alchamise them into fuel for your next paradigm shift!