Episode 19: Fetish Play Vs. F*cking

An interview with “Blue Topaz,” or “Blue” about fetish play versus sexShow notes:Blue is engaged and sexually monogamous with fiance, who is also in kink sceneSome history of Blue’s involvement with kink and vanilla relationships / The boundaries and agreements about kink vs. sex with fiance and other peopleNeedle play is something Blue does with other peopleRope play is something fiance does with other peopleFire play is something they do together with other peopleMore about fire playSubspace describedHow and when she subs or domsWhat kink is really about and how she got involved in the sceneAbout munchesSafety and consent among kink / swingersWhere the play happensAbout her bisexuality and how it works within her relationship with her fiance and kink playMore about her vanilla relationship pastPublic openness about involvement in the kink sceneMore about needle playEven more details about fire playThe luck of finding her kinky partnerThe nature of kink relationships — being open right off the batNew kink interests on the horizon: Fire floggers on wish list / Kink registry for wedding! A note about kink people: They are normal and fun! / Join us! / Explore but be safeThe respectful nature of kinky folks as opposed to "normal" / vanilla folksLINK: Blue’s profile with videos of the fire play and examples of other kink playAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy