Episode 2: Navigating The Early Days of ENM

Episode 2: Initial Struggles with ENMStarting out in ethical non-monogamy can feel like learning to walk on a tightrope—in the dark, with no map. We’ve been there. What we talk about in this episode:In this episode, we get real about the messy, confusing, and sometimes magical first six months of navigating ethical non-monogamy (ENM). From awkward first dates and emotional overwhelm to finding community and unlearning monogamy norms, we share the stuff people don’t always talk about. Whether you’re newly polyamorous, deep in open relationships, or just curious about relationship structures outside the mainstream, this one’s for you. What We Talk About:Our first steps into ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and polyamoryWhere we looked for information, advice, and emotional supportEarly emotional challenges like jealousy, insecurity, and lonelinessThe cultural and queer identity layers that shaped our experiencesHow support groups, dating apps, and community events helped (or didn’t)Good advice, bad advice, and everything in betweenPersonal reflections, resilience, and learning to sit with discomfortWhat we wish we’d known when we were starting out in ENMMentioned in This Episode:ko-fi.com/enmdnmyarnn.auPoly Phelia InstagramShrimp Teeth Instagram The Ethical Slut (book)Love what you hear?If this episode resonated with you, give us a follow, leave a review, or support the pod on Ko-fi.Want to keep the conversation going? Join our queer-friendly Discord community where we talk ENM, dating, identity, and more.Next episode, we’re diving into intersectionality in ENM—how our race, gender, queerness, and lived experience shape the way we show up in relationships. Thanks for joining us in this honest conversation about ethical non-monogamy, queer identity, communication, community, and the very real struggles of starting out. Loved the episode? Want to help keep The ENM DNM alive, growing and making more gorgeous chaos?ou can support the podcast with a one-off or ongoing donation here: Ko-fi.comYour support helps us make the podcast and also contributes to our broader mission of funding free and subsidised therapy for people who may not otherwise be able to access it.Come say hi or follow along:InstagramTiktokEmail us!Want to book a counselling session with Adam?Get in touch here: HalaxyWe’re also keen to hear from potential collaborators, sponsors, guests and partners.Please note: this podcast is for conversation, reflection and shared experience. It is not a replacement for therapy, medical advice or crisis support.Loved the episode? Want to help keep The ENM DNM alive, growing and making gorgeous chaos?Support the podcast hereYour support helps us make the podcast and helps fund free and subsidised therapy for people who may not otherwise access it.Come say hi: socialsWant to book a counselling session with Adam? HalaxyWe’re also keen to hear from collaborators, sponsors, guests and partners. [email protected] Please note: this podcast is for conversation and reflection, not therapy, medical advice or crisis support. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.