Episode 20: Communicating With Children: Using Declarative Language with Demand Avoidant Kids with Linda Murphy

This is an episode for any parent whose children are 'demand avoidant' (i.e. resist being told what to do). Actually all kids have a drive for autonomy particularly as they get older, but some kids (often those on the autism spectrum) are highly avoidant of any request or demand by an adult and this can cause huge family problems. Responding to a listener's request, Bettina interviewed Linda Murphy with a big focus on the concept of declarative language. Linda explains what declarative language is and how it encourages young people to cooperate more effectively. She discusses the numerous benefits of this communication style for children's development and how it strengthens the parent-child relationship. Tune in to hear as Bettina and Linda explore this powerful approach to communication.