Episode 20: Sexual Orientation vs. Erotic Orientation & Why It Matters

In this episode of The Modern MILF Podcast, I unpack the difference between sexual orientation — who you are attracted to — and erotic orientation — what turns you on sexually. Drawing on research in sexology and social psychology (including surveys by Dr. Justin Lehmiller), I explore why these dimensions of human sexuality don’t always match, and how that understanding can support greater self-acceptance, better communication, and healthier relationships. Commercial Sponsor: BADFOXXX Lust Between Us Couples Card Game, use the link below: https://lustbetweenus.com/modernmilf Connect with me! Instagram  TikTok  Facebook Contact me! [email protected] To access my Coaching Course on Rejection, free PDF downloads, or to schedule a coaching call with me, go to: LinkTree Credits: Writing, recording, and editing by me, Bethany Theme music by MobyGratis References (Cited Sources) https://www.apa.org/monitor/apr01/erotic https://joekort.com/erotic-orientation-helping-couples-individuals-understand-their-sexual-lives/  https://heyemma.com/sexual-orientation-vs-erotic-orientation/?utm_source=chatgpt.com https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/understanding-the-erotic-code/202209/the-important-intersection-mental-and-sexual-health https://kinseyinstitute.org/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/bdsm