Episode 29- Do They Meet Your Standards? Stop Shapeshifting and Start Choosing Yourself

In this episode of Juicy Bits with Carmen, we turn the lens around and ask a question most women were never taught to ask: do they meet my standards?After divorce in her 40s, Carmen found herself pulled toward dating, desire, and the urge to find a new partner. But underneath that pull was something deeper: conditioning to shape shift, perform, and prioritize how she was being perceived over what she actually wanted.This episode is a powerful invitation to stop asking “am I enough?” and start asking “are they right for me?”If you’ve been caught in people pleasing, disconnected from your body, or unsure of your desires, this conversation will help you come back home to yourself. You’ll begin to see how your standards are not walls, but expressions of your self worth, your boundaries, and your truth.We explore:Dating after divorce and redefining what you wantLetting go of shapeshifting and performanceReconnecting with your body and desireCreating standards that reflect your valuesShifting from external validation to self trustThis is for the woman ready to stop abandoning herself and start choosing relationships, connections, and experiences that truly meet her.Know someone that needs to hear this episode? Share it with them and be sure to follow the show. If you want to learn more about how to become the Sovereign Creatrix of your own life, join Carmen's free community in Skool. Click here: https://bit.ly/yjlskool