Episode 3 - Closure

Closure. We think we need it. We wait for it. We convince ourselves we can't move on without it. But here's the thing—closure isn't always coming. And that? That's okay. In this episode of Divorced AF, Audrey gets honest about the concept of closure—what it actually is, why we chase it, and how to move forward when we don't get it. Drawing from her own experience with divorce and addiction, she breaks down the harsh truth: sometimes, the apology, the explanation, the validation we crave never comes. And yet, we can still thrive. This is your reminder that closure isn't something your ex gives you—it's something you decide for yourself. The Truth About Closure Audrey opens up about her personal experience of leaving a marriage affected by addiction. She reflects on the moment she realized that waiting for her ex to change—or even admit fault—was a losing game. Closure isn't about someone else's words; it's about your own healing. Who Are You Really Missing? When a relationship ends, do we actually miss the person—or do we miss the version of them we built in our minds? Audrey challenges listeners to get honest about the difference between mourning a person and mourning the potential we once saw in them. Accountability: The Key to Moving On Waiting for closure often means waiting for someone else to take responsibility. But what about self-accountability? Audrey talks about owning your role in past relationships, not to place blame, but to grow and ensure that history doesn't repeat itself. What If the Apology Never Comes? Spoiler alert: sometimes, the closure you want from your ex isn't going to happen. Audrey explores what it looks like to find peace without an apology, an explanation, or a final conversation. Because waiting on someone else to give you permission to move on? That's not it. Healing Without the Final Chapter Letting go doesn't require a neat ending. Audrey shares practical steps to reclaim your power and close the book on your past—on your terms. She reminds listeners that real closure comes from within, not from someone else's validation. Your Next Steps ☑ Reflect on who you truly miss—the real person or the version you imagined. ☑ Dive deep into self-love and examine why you allowed certain things in your past relationships. ☑ Decide whether you're ready to move forward without the closure you once thought you needed. Closure isn't a conversation. It's not a text, a confession, or a heartfelt apology from someone who hurt you. Closure is a choice. And the moment you decide you're done waiting for it? You're already free. Join the Divorced AF Community! Love this episode? Show some love! 💜 Like, subscribe, rate, and review to help others find this podcast. Don't forget to share this message with someone who needs to hear it today! ✨ You don't have to be perfect—you just have to be present. ✨ Connect with Audrey Instagram: @divorced.af.collective Email: [email protected] Check out the DAF E-store! Website: DAF Podcast Become a DAF Affiliate Giving Credit To My Tribe Music created and composed by my son, Hugo This podcast is produced by Jen, my Unicorn! Be a Guest on the Show Do you have a powerful story to share? Want to inspire others with your post-divorce journey? Fill out our guest application form and join Audrey on the show! This is more than a podcast—it's a movement. Welcome to Divorced AF, where transformation begins. Thank you for listening to today's episode of Divorced AF with Audrey! If you found this episode helpful, please share it with another woman who could use some support on her journey. Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review to help us reach more incredible women like you. Remember, Sister, your divorce was just the beginning, and the best is yet to come. Until next time!