Episode 3: Intersectionality and ENM

Episode 3: Intersectionality and ENMWhat happens when your queerness, culture, neurodivergence, and upbringing all collide with ethical non-monogamy? We’re talking about the beautiful mess that is intersectionality. In this episode, we explore how identity shapes the way we show up in ethical non-monogamy (ENM). From growing up in religious households or navigating white privilege to being queer, neurodivergent, or culturally “othered,” we get real about how our histories affect our desires, relationships, and sense of belonging in polyamorous and open relationship spaces. This is one for anyone who's ever wondered, "Am I doing this right?" or "Is it just me?" (Spoiler: it’s not.)What We Talk About:How race, culture, gender, and queerness influence our experiences in ENMThe impact of religious and conservative upbringings on identity and relationshipsShame, internalised norms, and how we begin to unlearn themThe role of gender identity and sexuality in open relationshipsNavigating ENM while feeling “not queer enough” or “too much”Relationship structures beyond the mainstreamFriendship, intimacy, and redefining what connection meansVulnerability, self-discovery, and making space for changeMentioned in This Episode:Ko-Fi.com/enmdnm – Support the pod and our communityThe Ethical Slut (book)Love what you hear? If this episode resonated with you, give us a follow, leave a review, or support the pod on Ko-fi.Want to keep the conversation going?Join our queer-friendly Discord community where we talk ENM, identity, support, and more.Next episode, we’re diving into communication and boundaries—how we define them, where we struggle, and what it means to communicate well in ENM.Thanks for joining us in this honest conversation about ethical non-monogamy, queer identity, communication, consent, and community.Loved the episode? Want to help keep The ENM DNM alive, growing and making more gorgeous chaos?ou can support the podcast with a one-off or ongoing donation here: Ko-fi.comYour support helps us make the podcast and also contributes to our broader mission of funding free and subsidised therapy for people who may not otherwise be able to access it.Come say hi or follow along:InstagramTiktokEmail us!Want to book a counselling session with Adam?Get in touch here: HalaxyWe’re also keen to hear from potential collaborators, sponsors, guests and partners.Please note: this podcast is for conversation, reflection and shared experience. It is not a replacement for therapy, medical advice or crisis support.Loved the episode? Want to help keep The ENM DNM alive, growing and making gorgeous chaos?Support the podcast hereYour support helps us make the podcast and helps fund free and subsidised therapy for people who may not otherwise access it.Come say hi: socialsWant to book a counselling session with Adam? HalaxyWe’re also keen to hear from collaborators, sponsors, guests and partners. [email protected] Please note: this podcast is for conversation and reflection, not therapy, medical advice or crisis support. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.