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EPISODE · Nov 17, 2025 · 25 MIN

Episode 3: The Therapist Mask: What Grad School Taught vs. What Clients Really Need

from The Unmasked Therapist Podcast · host Keystone Therapy Group

In this episode, Clinical Supervisors ⁠⁠Kim Rippy, LPC⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT dive into the “blank slate” approach taught in graduate school and why strictly following it can create disconnection between therapists and clients. We unpack how countertransference is often misunderstood as a “dirty word,” how ethics and liability shape early clinician training, and why showing up authentically is essential for real therapeutic connection.Kaitlyn and Kim share personal stories, including navigating sensitive topics like miscarriage, to illustrate how bringing your humanity, and not just your professional skills, into the therapy room helps clients truly feel seen and supported. Learn why empathy, co-regulation, and genuine presence are more impactful than rigidly adhering to the blank slate model.Key Takeaways:Why the blank slate approach can limit authentic connectionUnderstanding countertransference and its role in therapyHow showing up as a human improves client outcomesBalancing professional boundaries with authentic presenceConnect with us:Supervision: ⁠⁠www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠@TheUnmaskedTherapist⁠Email: ⁠[email protected] this episode helped you, leave a five-star review and subscribe so you never miss new insights for therapists and mental health professionals.Disclaimer:This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. All therapy skills discussed should be used within the scope of your experience and with appropriate clinical supervision. #TherapistMask #TherapyTraining #BlankSlate #Countertransference #AuthenticTherapist #TherapistLife #MentalHealthProfessionals #TherapyTips #GraduateSchoolTherapy #EmpathyInTherapy

In this episode, Clinical Supervisors ⁠⁠Kim Rippy, LPC⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT dive into the “blank slate” approach taught in graduate school and why strictly following it can create disconnection between therapists and clients. We unpack how countertransference is often misunderstood as a “dirty word,” how ethics and liability shape early clinician training, and why showing up authentically is essential for real therapeutic connection.Kaitlyn and Kim share personal stories, including navigating sensitive topics like miscarriage, to illustrate how bringing your humanity, and not just your professional skills, into the therapy room helps clients truly feel seen and supported. Learn why empathy, co-regulation, and genuine presence are more impactful than rigidly adhering to the blank slate model.Key Takeaways:Why the blank slate approach can limit authentic connectionUnderstanding countertransference and its role in therapyHow showing up as a human improves client outcomesBalancing professional boundaries with authentic presenceConnect with us:Supervision: ⁠⁠www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠@TheUnmaskedTherapist⁠Email: ⁠[email protected] this episode helped you, leave a five-star review and subscribe so you never miss new insights for therapists and mental health professionals.Disclaimer:This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. All therapy skills discussed should be used within the scope of your experience and with appropriate clinical supervision. #TherapistMask #TherapyTraining #BlankSlate #Countertransference #AuthenticTherapist #TherapistLife #MentalHealthProfessionals #TherapyTips #GraduateSchoolTherapy #EmpathyInTherapy

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