Episode 35: Acting, Rejection, and Doing It Anyway w/ Kayla Becker and Vanessa Curry

Send us Fan MailWhat keeps an actor chasing the next audition when the no’s pile up, the nerves hit at the worst moment, and even big breaks don’t guarantee the next job? We crack open the real toolkit that sustains a creative career: practical audition tactics, honest mindset shifts, and the discipline to make your own work while the industry decides.We dig into Jenna Fischer’s The Actor’s Life and connect it to our lived experience. You’ll hear how memorizing just the first three lines anchors a read, why casting actually prefers you hold the sides, and how one decisive nonverbal reaction can signal you’re truly listening. We talk range—when to go bigger so they can pull you back, and when restraint reads as truth. We explore the power of bringing yourself to the character instead of forcing a mask, the strange realities of type and “the look,” and why fame doesn’t hand you every role. Along the way, we share a gut-punch story of getting fired post-success and how to process that hit without losing your voice.Mindset is the throughline. We reframe rejection with “no-to-yes math,” use a 24-hour window to feel and release, and outline body-based tools for audition anxiety: Feldenkrais, power stances, breath, and music that blocks comparison. Then we get tactical about career SEO: building a consistent body of work through short films, sketches, and podcasts, collaborating with people who match your taste and work ethic, and ignoring the fear of being “cringe.” Confidence doesn’t come from credits. It comes from showing up prepared, present, and honest—again and again.If you need a nudge to keep going, this one’s for you. Hit play, then tell us the one audition habit you’ll try this week. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to help more creatives find the show.