Episode 365: The Boundary Hangover: Why You Feel Worse After Setting Limits (And What's Actually Happening)

You did the hard thing. You said it. And then you felt worse. That guilt, that dread, that urge to immediately walk it back — that's not a sign you did something wrong. It's your nervous system doing exactly what it was designed to do. Just not for the life you're trying to build. In today's episode, I'm breaking down the 7 reasons the aftermath of a boundary feels like a crisis:  the grief, the identity disruption, the fear of abandonment, the cognitive dissonance, and what's actually happening in your body when a familiar dynamic gets disrupted. Because nobody told us the relief doesn't come right away. And that silence has led many people to give up on themselves too soon. New episode is out now. Link in bio.    Have a question or something you’d like me to talk about in a future episode? You can call the show and leave a voicemail or send me an email — I love hearing from you, and your feedback helps shape these conversations.  https://thanksforsharingpodcast.my.canva.site/thanks-for-sharing-links