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EPISODE · Mar 25, 2026 · 15 MIN

Episode 42: Stop Saying “I Have To” and Start Enjoying Your Life Again - How to Turn Pressure Into Joy Like an Olympian

from Not Anymore! · host Wendy Hofhine

What if the stress you feel every day isn’t actually coming from your life but from the story you’re telling yourself about it?In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful mindset shift that completely changed how I show up in my life. Inspired by Olympian Alysa Liu and her ability to compete with joy instead of pressure, I break down the difference between thinking “I have to” versus choosing “I want to” and how that one small shift can change everything.I walk you through real life examples from my own week including motherhood, workouts, hard conversations, and even the mental load that started showing up physically in my body. I talk about how our thoughts create our feelings and how the pressure we carry is often self created.I also tie this back to concepts from Byron Katie and past episodes where we’ve talked about turning stress into something lighter and more intentional.If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, stuck in pressure, or like everything is just too much, this episode will help you release that weight and step back into a more joyful, empowered way of living.You don’t have to do anything. But you can choose everything.#mindsetshift #selfgrowth #personaldevelopment #stressmanagement #mentalhealthmatters #mindsetcoach #positivepsychology #selfimprovement #momlife #healingjourney #confidence #anxietyrelief #innerpeace #growthmindset #podcastlife

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What if the stress you feel every day isn’t actually coming from your life but from the story you’re telling yourself about it? In this episode, I’m sharing a powerful mindset shift that completely changed how I show up in my life. Inspired by Olympian Alysa Liu and her ability to compete with joy instead of pressure, I break down the difference between thinking “I have to” versus choosing “I want to” and how that one small shift can change everything. I walk you through real life examples fr...

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