Episode 44: Jodi's Path to Parenthood: Lessons for Your Own Journey

In this episode Jennifer talks with Jodi Tolman, author, keynote speaker and online course creator devoted to helping others navigate the path to parenthood. After marrying her husband Jay at 40, and faced with infertility, Jodi spent six years pursuing treatment, adoption and donor egg IVF, ultimately building a family of three children. Jodi now helps others find their own best path to parenthood. Her story is shared in her best-selling memoir, “One From Each Column: My 46-Year Trek from Abusive Childhood to Elusive Motherhood.”Key topics discussed: Jodi’s discovery, at age 40, that she had age-related infertility, and how her resilience helped her face itWhy couples should identify their true priority - genetics, pregnancy, or parenting - early in the journeyHow Jodi and her husband “double-tracked” treatment and adoption at the same timeThe importance of building a trusted team - doctor, social worker, genetics counselor and mental health practitionerWhy relying on trusted professionals, rather than “Dr. Google” or AI tools, matters for fertility educationStaying hopeful and keeping an open mind through a long, uncertain journeyLearning to grieve the dream of a genetic child while embracing the wonder of however your child arrivesWays male partners can stay engaged and feel involved throughout the processPreparing thoughtful questions before every medical appointmentJodi’s upcoming digital course, “From Powerless to Parenthood and Points Beyond”Resources Mentioned:Jodi’s memoir: “One From Each Column: My 46-Year Trek from Abusive Childhood to Elusive Motherhood”Jodi’s upcoming digital course, “From Powerless to Parenthood and Points Beyond,” is launching soon All Paths Family Building, a New England-based nonprofit offering support groups, including for menConnect with JodiJodiTolmanSpeaks.comContact information for speaking engagements and consulting is available on her websiteConnect with Jennifer:Schedule a free Fertility Support SessionFollow Jennifer on Instagram for more tips and insights: @jennredmondinhcI would be so grateful if you would subscribe, leave a review and share this episode with women in your life who can benefit from this information.Disclaimer: The Cycles and Seasons podcast is for general educational and informational purposes only and should not be taken as medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Please consult your healthcare professional regarding any symptoms or medical problems you are experiencing.