Episode 45: Rigid Vs. Flexible

Some spanking implements are rigid. Some spanking implements are flexible. By the same token, some guys have rigid spanking fantasies where the scene plays out in very particular pre-determined ways. Some others have more flexible fantasies that revolve a bit more about evolving or improvisational play based on reactions during the scene. Both approaches (and both types of implements) are perfectly valid in the spanking scene. But it’s important to know the ins and outs of not just the tools but the types of play. A person with a rigid spanking fantasy may have a difficult time adjusting to a more flexible player and vice-versa. Scott is joined by Jaden from Whappz to discuss and advise. Don’t forget, Bad Ass Weekend is coming up in October: Bawevent.com. And mark your schedules for Hot Seat Retreat next March 16-19, 2023: hotseatps.com. Music: Vivera / “I Don’t Give a Damn” (Instrumental Version) / courtesy of epidemicsound.com