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Dudes Spankin' Dudes
by Scott (RedspkScott) and Brian (SoupGoblin)
A podcast by Scott (HotBotScott) and guests on spanking kink involving dudes.This podcast contains discussions that involve adult and sexually explicit matters.
Episodes
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Episode 66: Taken to TASSP
The Texas All-State Spanking Party (also known as TASSP) is the biggest spanking event in the country, bringing hundreds together every summer. But we’ve never discussed it on our podcast because it’s a pansexual event without a lot of interest for dudes who spank dudes. Or so we might think.…
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Episode 65: Getting Crafty with Archer and Alex of Cane-iac
Whether you’re in the market for new punishment implements or thinking about making your own, this is the episode for you. Scott is joined by Archer and Alex, who in 2025 took over ownership of popular online implement vendor Cane-iac. They talk about how they found themselves becoming paddle,...
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Episode 64: You Are Getting … Very … Spanky?
Have you ever fantasized about hypnotizing that hot bartender who flirts with you into coming home with you so you can get him across your knee for a good, firm spanking? Well, too bad. That’s not how it works. But that doesn’t mean that hypnosis can’t actually improve your spanking play by…
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Special: Hot Seat Vegas 2026 Registration Opens Jan. 24
Hot Seat Vegas is back for 2026 at a new resort downtown. The event will run from July 22-26. Registration will be opening on Jan. 24, and we encourage you to register early if you're planning to attend. For more information and prices (and to register when the time comes) visit us at...
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Episode 63: Live from Bad Ass Weekend
What does 15 years of growth and change in the male spanking community look like? Scott has recorded this episode live at Bad Ass Weekend in Augusta, Georgia, to chat with the organizers about what they’ve seen and learned hosting an event for 15 years. What started as a small gathering of guys…
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Episode 62: Plug and Play
Did you know there’s other things you can do with a butt besides spanking it? It’s wild to think about! Scott is joined this episode by Ryan, who enjoys incorporating insertion play into the spankings he dishes out, bringing in butt plugs, thermometers, and even figging. It’s a way to bring in…
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Episode 61: London Bawling
Do you wanna cry, boy? Being spanked to tears is probably one of the biggest fantasies in spanking. It is also one of the hardest fantasies to achieve. Scott visited London and reconnected with his original Bully, who got him back into bottoming (and who first appeared all the way back in Episode...
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Episode 60: Bullies and Bounties at Hot Seat Retreat
Another Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs has come and gone, and HotBotScott is joined this episode by SleepyBap to chat about the spanktastic times they had this March. Spoilers: The weather was perfect this year, especially compared to last year’s wind and rain, and there were many, many, many...
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Episode 59: Long-Distance Discipline
You’ve found the perfect disciplinarian who knows exactly what to say to you to get you into that headspace where you can just want to say to him, “Yes, sir, I deserve a spanking,” and mean it. He knows what you need, how much you need it, and the right way to give it to you. The problem? You…
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Episode 58: Demands of the Hand
Would you believe Dudes Spankin’ Dudes has been around for more than five years and nearly 60 episodes and we’ve never actually done an episode about hand spankings? That’s a terrible oversight over which Scott should be spanked. And he will be! Scott is joined again by Sean to talk about what…
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Special: Hot Seat Vegas 2025 Is Coming! July 30 to August 3
We are pleased to announce that Hot Seat Vegas has found a new home and will return in 2025 from Wednesday, July 30th through Sunday, August 3rd. Registration for Vegas will open on Saturday, February 1, at 10 a.m. Pacific time (7 a.m. East Coast time). Visit hotseatvegas.com for more details and...
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Episode 57: Bad Ass Weekend 2024’s Wonderfully Painful Memories
Hot on the heels of hurricane Helene, Bad Ass Weekend returned to Augusta, Georgia, in October. There were upturned trees, but more importantly, upturned bottoms, particularly Scott’s. Scott is joined this episode by Sean, who attended Bad Ass Weekend for the first time this year. We have stories...
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Episode 56: All About Aftercare
Hey dudes, Bad Ass Weekend is just around the corner. and Scott is joined by Bruce, one of the event organizers known for his love of providing aftercare to any spanked bottoms who need it. Aftercare following a spanking can help provide a chance not just to help a butt physically recover from a...
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Special: Hot Seat Retreat 2025 Registration Opens Sept. 14
Hey all! Time to mark your calendars. Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs will be returning in 2025 on March 19-23. If you want to enter the lottery for one of the rooms at host resort CCBC, you'll want to register once it opens on Saturday Sept. 14. You'll have until 11:59 p.m. Pacific Time on…
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Episode 55: What Happens in Vegas ...
Scott is back home after hosting the first Hot Seat Vegas and returns with a new outlook on his spanking life. And that new outlook is one where he is ass up over a man’s knee, getting spanked as much and as frequently as possible. Scott is re-embracing and reclaiming his bottomhood. He’s joined...
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Episode 54: New Trips and New Butts!
July is one of the hottest months of the year, and thanks to a couple of spanking events that month, we’re going to make it even hotter. Insert as many “global warming” puns and jokes as you see fit as you rub your sore bottom—or somebody else’s! Scott is joined by Tony, a.k.a. Bearspanks, to…
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Special: Register for Hot Seat Vegas by June 9th!
TL;DR version: Register for Hot Seat Vegas by Sunday, June 9 to make sure that you'll get a room placement in the same buildings as the other attendees. Also, we're looking for attendees who want to put on activities or meetings that help people connect in the conference rooms we've got for our...
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Episode 53: Cold Winds and Hot Seats
Another Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Dean, who attended Hot Seat Retreat in Palm Springs for the first time in March and got spanked a whole lot. He tells us all about it. Mother Nature decided to make her presence known this year in some unpleasant ways, but we...
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Special: Introducing Hot Seat Vegas
Scott is joined by Hot Seat Retreat co-organizers Jaden and Doug to announce a new spanking weekend venture. We're going to Vegas, guys! Hot Seat Vegas will be launching July 10-14, 2024, at the Tuscany Suites and Casino. Registration opens on January 20, 2024. Listen on for more details. Visit…
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Episode 52: Up Against the Wall and Spread ‘Em!
It’s a very common fantasy for dudes into spanking: You get pulled over for speeding or tailgating or some other moving violation by a gruff, authoritative police officer. Is there anything you can do to get out of a ticket? Maybe pay some other penalty right then and there? Perhaps bent over the...
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Episode 51: Bad Ass Weekend Book Release Bonanza
Bad Ass Weekend 2023 in Georgia has come and gone, and Scott is joined by Justin and Trevor to talk about our seminars and some very hot spanking action. Scott talked about how to properly bully deserving bottom boys and ended up on both the giving and receiving end of some very hot bully play....
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Special: Moonburn Returns to L.A. January 6, 2024
Good news! Moonburn m/m spanking parties will be returning in January 2024 at Sanctuary Studios in South Los Angeles. Listen for some quick details. Sanctuary Studios is at 13012 Athens Way, Los Angeles, CA 90061. Their website is here: https://www.sanctuarylax.com/. There will be more news to…
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Special: Bad Boys Spanking Party 2023 in Los Angeles
The Bad Boys Spanking Party will be returning to L.A. Leather Getaway on Thanksgiving weekend. It will take place from 4-7 p.m. on Saturday, Nov. 25 and is free to anybody registered to attend the weekend. For more information about attending L.A. Leather Getaway, visit clawinfo.org.
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Episode 50: Moonburn's Murky Future
Episode 50 was supposed to be a celebration! Instead, Scott, joined by Paul, a.k.a. Copper, has to discuss the state of L.A.’s Moonburn parties. The upcoming October Moonburn party is the last we have scheduled for the foreseeable future. We talk about what has happened and why, and what the…
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Special: Hot Seat Retreat 2024 Registration Opens Sept. 16
Scott and Jaden are happy to announce that registration for 2024's Hot Seat Retreat will open on Saturday, Sept. 16, starting at 10 a.m. Pacific (1 p.m. Eastern). There are major changes coming to the room assignment process as we shift to a lottery system, which Jaden explains. And Scott…
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Episode 49: The Ethical Brat
Ow Canada! Ryan joins Scott this episode to discuss CanSpanks, a spanking event at Fox Haven, a big, isolated campground in Lavigne, Ontario. Their next gathering is coming in September, and Ryan’s got some hot stories about what happens up there. And in the fantasy life of spanking, Ryan, an...
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Episode 48: Hit the Switch
For Episode 48, Steve from Episode 46 is back to join Scott to talk about switches. Not the implement—though we should probably talk about that, too, in a future episode. Rather, we discuss what it’s like to be somebody who craves both giving and receiving spankings as opposed to just taking on…
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Hot Seat Retreat 2023 Approaches (March 16-19)
It's time to get ready to register for Hot Seat Retreat 2023, from March 16-19 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs. Registration will open at 10 a.m. Pacific Time (1 p.m. Eastern) on Nov. 19th. Rooms will be reserved on a first-come first served basis, so be ready when registration opens if you want a...
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Episode 47: Bad Ass Weekend 2022 Trip Report
Scott is joined by The Sweet (and briefly by an awkwardly meowing cat) to discuss the fun of Bad Ass Weekend 2022. And there was a lot of fun to be had. Scott got to be a bully and get punished for it. The Sweet got spanked for some real life bad manners. More spankings were dished out at Uno…
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Special: Bad Boys Spanking Party in L.A. 2022
The Bad Boys Spanking Party is back for 2022 on Thanksgiving weekend, as is CLAW, now rechristened in its L.A. home as the L.A. Leather Getaway. The Spanking Party will be held in the Pasadena Room of the Westin Bonaventure on Saturday, Nov. 26, from 4-7 p.m. The party is free to those registered...
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Episode 46: Who Tells Your (Spankin’) Story?
For Episode 46, Scott is joined by Stephen and Mike, two members of our spanking community who are working on a special project: a book about our scene and its members. They chat about their plan, what they’re looking for, what they are hoping to produce, and how you can participate. If you want…
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Special: Monkeypox and You
As Monkeypox spreads within the male community this summer, Scott felt it necessary to record a special piece with warnings and tips. Just because you're not engaging in sex, that doesn't mean you're not at risk of either getting or spreading Monkeypox. Some information from the CDC on social...
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Episode 45: Rigid Vs. Flexible
Some spanking implements are rigid. Some spanking implements are flexible. By the same token, some guys have rigid spanking fantasies where the scene plays out in very particular pre-determined ways. Some others have more flexible fantasies that revolve a bit more about evolving or…
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Episode 44: Hot Seat Redux
Our second Hot Seat Retreat has come and gone, and Scott is joined by attendees Randy (a.k.a. RedBearSpanker) and Tony (a.k.a. BearSpanks) to discuss all the fun of the event. Lots of swats were dished out, Scott got bullied and wedgied quite a bit, a pool party led to some wet bottoms getting...
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Episode 43: Preserving Spank History
It’s Hot Seat Retreat time! But for those of you unable to join us out in Palm Springs, Scott managed to squeeze in a fun episode about some important spanking history connected to Man’s Hand Films, which has just recently shut down as a company. Scott is joined by Mike (a.k.a. StricTop) and Phil...
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Hot Seat Retreat Special: Scott’s Butt Awaits Your Bullying
Hey out there to any dudes attending Hot Seat Retreat. If you’re looking to get your hands on Scott’s ass while he’s involved in his hosting duties, please listen to these guidelines. Yes, Scott wants to be bullied and spanked all weekend long while he's serving as host and he'll be attending as…
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Episode 42: Ladies Into Dudes Spankin’ Dudes
It’s our very first female guest ever, as author and spanking kinkster Jillian Keenan joins Scott to discuss what it is about guys spanking each other that appeals to some women. In the Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes segment, we discuss a complex issue that Jillian has strong feelings about: Are...
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Episode 41: Too Kinky for Sex?
Jaden of Whappz is back with Scott on the podcast for a review of CLAW in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving weekend. Scott did the work to put together some panels on spanking and a big spanking party. Jaden was there as well, and the two discuss what they’ve learned (and how awesome it was to have…
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Special: CLAW Bad Boys Spanking Party Info
Come out to CLAW on Nov. 24-28 at the Westin Bonaventure Hotel in downtown Los Angeles. and have a great spanking time. Scott goes over all the important details of the Bad Boys Spanking Party and other fun activities. If you book a hotel room now, you will receive one free five-day event ticket...
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Episode 40: Bad Ass Weekend Family Reunion
Scott is back from Bad Ass Weekend and is joined by Aaryn to discuss the amazing time they had at the first major U.S. spanking weekend to take place since the COVID lockdown. Pledges were hazed, naughty sons were disciplined by upset dads, and wrestlers grappled for dominance in some super-hot...
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Episode 39: A Spanking Good Time at CLAW
This episode Scott is joined by Bob Miller, one of the of the founders and the executive director of Cleveland Leather Annual Weekend (a.k.a. CLAW). Due to COVID wrecking schedules and planning, CLAW’s annual convention is happening this year in Los Angeles on Thanksgiving week. Better yet, it...
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Extra: Announcing Hot Seat Retreat 2022
Scott is joined by Jaden and Doug to formally announce that Hot Seat Retreat is on track for 2022. The event will take place from March 17-20 at CCBC resort in Palm Springs, California. Registration will formally open on Sept. 18. We go over all the basics to prep y'all on what to expect if you...
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Episode 38: Wedgies Show Off Those Beaten Bottoms
Jaden, founder of Whappz and co-founder of Hot Seat Retreat, is back for another episode as we all prepare for Bad Ass Weekend (bawevent.com) in Georgia in October. And Scott announces plans for a spanking party at the Cleveland Leather Awareness Weekend (CLAW) event (clawinfo.org), which will...
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Dudes Spankin’ Dudes Presents: Spanking 101
Greetings dudes! Scott takes a step away from podcast episodes to record a special segment on spanking basics, inspired by seeing a bunch of fresh faces (and butts) coming into the scene post-COVID. This is intended to be a sort of “evergreen” podcast episode that can be searched for and shared...
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Extra: Moonburn Is Back!
Just a quick message to let y'all know that the L.A. Moonburn m/m spanking parties are officially back! The next party will be on Saturday, July 3, from noon-5 p.m., at the Threshold club in North Hollywood. (Their site is here: threshold.org) Vaccinations are mandatory to attend. Scott will be...
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Episode 37: Rebooting Your Butt
J.R. (a.k.a. Bossman) returns to the podcast after giving Scott’s ass its first post-pandemic beating. We discuss what that was like and how to ease yourself back into pain play if you’ve taken, like we have, 14 months off from the scene. In the “Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes” segment, we talk...
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Episode 36: Furry Butts Need Spankings, Too
For episode 36, Dudes Spankin’ Dudes Co-creator Croup/Soup Goblin/Brian returns to chat with Scott about furry culture, what it’s like to be a furry, and about bringing the spanking fetish to the furry community. In addition, Bad Ass Weekend is on schedule for October, and Scott reaches a…
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Episode 35: Six of the Best
Finally, the caning episode! With the assistance of British guest Harrison, we talk about the well-known, well-worn British love of caning this episode. The Real Dudes Spankin’ Real Dudes section discusses caning techniques, things to do and not do, and what a caning feels like. The Fantasy Life…
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Special Note: Hot Seat Retreat Cancelled for 2021
This is not a full podcast episode, but sadly, a short message informing everybody that Hot Seat Retreat for March 2021 has been cancelled. We're making initial plans to return to Palm Springs in March 2022 and some sort of virtual event to take its place. Listen for more details.
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Episode 34: Get Your Butt on SouthSpanking
This episode begins with some sad news for our listeners. Frank, a.k.a. “Big Daddy Vegas,” who was the guest for episodes 13, 14, and 16, has passed away from Bulbar ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease. Scott opens with some warm thoughts about a close friend. Our guest for this episode is...
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