Episode 5 - The Difference Between Falling in Love vs. Loving Someone

We often use the word "love" loosely without fully understanding what it is. We have been conditioned through social media (including movies) and fairly tales with what look should be...which is far fetched.  We end up creating fantasies and illusions of the persona we want to be with. We make it about the "happily ever after" without fully understanding the deeper aspects of love. We easily become infatuated, obsessed, possessive and controlling due to the illusions in our heads. We long for the touch, the kiss and sometimes give in to sex thinking we can get love. This is a transaction and far from what love really is. The moment we no longer are satisfied or fed with what we expected, we suddenly, fall out of love and the relationship becomes soar. Reality is that you cannot give what you do not have. What you were looking for may be based on buried trauma/pain you carried from childhood. It is focused on seeking for acceptance and validation. It is emotionally intensified with a thirst for more. True love on the other hand, is unconditional....you will not fall in or fall out. It is focused on growth and sacrifice...standing in line with you through thick and thin. You won't get the gitters that send you on an emotional roller coaster ride. Loving someone is peaceful. You come as yourself without the pain/trauma. You come into a union of wholeness and recognize your partner a reflection of yourself not a mirage. Read this: The Difference Between Falling in Love vs. Loving Someone. Take the time to work on finding who you are and healingyourself so that you are not giving in to a false image of what love is about. Become the true love that you are created to be. Embrace who are you and understand that when you become love, it will be easy for love to find you! GIVEAWAY: "Love, Sex, Lies and Reality:" Please enjoy one free audio review copy of By Kemi Sogunle Love, Sex, Lies and Reality [Paperback], now available on Audible. Redeem the one-time use code below at Audible.com 2FEPJGA6P6S74 Yours truly, Kemi Sogunle Certified Life Coach and Relationship Expert www.kemisogunle.com #dating #relationship #lovesexliesandreality #beingsingle #beyondthepain #onbecomingrestored #fallinginlove #relationshipexpert #selflove #findinglove #kemisogunle #infatuation