Episode 5 - Why Unwanted Advice Hurts and What to Do Instead

Ever blurted out a “helpful tip” and watched the other person shut down? In this punchy, heart-opening episode of The Glow Up Experience, Lindsay Jacobi breaks the reflex to fix—and shows you how empathy, curiosity, and consent-first communication deepen connection with partners, friends, and kids. Through a real morning moment with her husband (and a hard truth from a well-meaning friend), Lindsay maps the simple shifts that turn advice-giving into trust-building. You’ll learn Why advice can sometimes land as judgment or incapability The one pause that stops “fix-it mode” in its tracks Consent questions that create instant safety: “Do you want ideas or ears?” / “Comfort or solutions?” Validation lines that soothe without rescuing How stepping back grows agency in children (and reduces learned helplessness) A quick self-check to rebuild polarity and intimacy in long-term relationships Links & Resources Free Glow Up Bundle: https://coaching.glowupcollective.co/glow-up-edition 90-Day Private Glow Up Coaching: https://glowupcollective.co Instagram: @lindsaystewartjacobi