Episode 58 - The Silent Generation - Sharon

In this episode we are excited to host our first guest from the Silent Generation.  Sharon candidly and openly shares her inspiring life story.  We learn about her great-grandparent's adventures during the Oklahoma Land Rush, and how her great-grandfather arrested Jesse James and The Dalton Boys when he was a sheriff in Kansas.  Their move to Oregon in the early 1900s secured a Portland, Oregon upbringing for future generations.  We discuss WWII, and the resulting affects of PTSD on the men who fought and how that affected women and family life going forward.  Sharon shares about her childhood which was rooted in responsibility, change and for a period, silent trauma.  We cover the concept of abuse as a child as well as abuse within a marriage.  Sharon reflects on a time where she sought therapy in any form presented, whether it was through reading, research or even through the prison system that her brother flowed in and out of as he battled addiction.  Through her own sheer strength and sense of hope that she was deserving of a better life, she cleverly and quietly escaped her abusive marriage.  Sharon shares her heartbreaking experience of her daughter going no contact, and expresses it with a grace and vulnerability that can only be described as a gift of understanding to anyone who can relate to the sheer pain a mother must process in such a distorted situation.  As Sharon herself put it, “I was trying very hard to come to a reasonable explanation for an unreasonable situation.”  We learn about how, post-divorce, she finished her degree in one year by taking an overload of classes, and how a one-way ticket to southern California for a new position was the transitional moment into securing herself a new journey midlife.  We learn about her work with TIP, Trauma Intervention Program, and how she used her own traumatic experiences in life to simply be an anchor for people when they were in the midst of sudden tragedy.  One common theme throughout our conversation was that Sharon’s grandmother was her anchor, and there’s probably no measure to how far her influence reached in Sharon’s life.  Sharon shares about her years living in Arizona, and eventual return to Oregon to live near her beloved son, family and the Pacific Northwest.  As stated earlier, this is an episode that will inspire, plain and simple.  You truly don’t want to miss this one!  In closing, we’ll quote Sharon once again, “I don’t do negative, what’s the point?”#inspire #inspiration #lifestory #interview #storytime #silentgeneration #WWII #boomer #family #marriage #divorce #trauma #abuse #wildwest #portland #oregon #ptsd #eldestdaughter #addiction #narcissism #alcoholism #midlife #nocontact #therapy #volunteer #advice #growth #courage #wisdom Check us out at genxadulting.com#generationx #genx #podcast #marriage #relationship #interview #mom #family