Episode 6: What NO ONE tells you about Assisted Living! with Melissa Stanton and Molly Mogren Katt of Carefree Cottages of Maplewood

Why does Assisted Living cost so much? Why does every tour somehow end in a “pub”? And are the communities with the fancy brochures and gourmet desserts actually the best fit for your loved one?In this episode of The Sandwich Generation Pod, Robyn and Eliesa sit down with Melissa Stanton and Molly Mogren Katt of Carefree Cottages of Maplewood for a candid (and surprisingly heated + funny) conversation about the realities of assisted living, from both sides of the tour.We get into the real stuff: the questions families should be asking, how to make sense of the finances, what actually matters beyond the marketing, and how to figure out who you can trust in an industry that can feel wildly overwhelming.Whether you’re just starting to explore assisted living or already deep in the process, this episode is packed with honest insights, helpful tips, and plenty of laughs along the way.Disclaimer: We are not lawyers nor do we offer legal advice on this podcast. All information is based out of Minnesota, so check your state to see what programs, waivers and assistance are offered in your area! TakeawaysWhat are the top 3 questions that families should be asking when touring assisted living communities?What is the difference between Private Pay, Elderly and Cadi Waiver programs?Think of shopping for assisted living like you’re dating. Are you serious and looking for a long term relationship? What are the qualities you’re looking for? Follow your *senses* What the hell is an Ombudsman? (This person might be your best friend…)What are some misconceptions about Assisted Living?Assisted Living Can be:Family OwnedCorporateNon-Profit (Like Shalom Home)Adult Foster HomesChapters01:23 Intro to Molly and Melissa of Carefree Cottages06:39 What is Assisted Living and Who is it for?12:52 Question #1: Do you accept the Elderly Waiver or Cadi Waiver?25:57 Question #2: How are the activities?30:43 Question #3: Medication Management and Independence 35:37 What things should you be looking for when touring Assisted Living?37:24 Robyn's horrible experience with assisted living44:19 What is an ombudsman and knowing your rights48:23 Debunking the misconceptions about Assisted Living53:07 Why does Assisted Living cost so much?56:19 Family Owned, Corporate, Non Profit or Adult Foster Care58:50 What is a 'Navigator' and are they helpful?01:01:08 Independent Living, Assisted Living, Memory Care and Skilled Nursing01:06:31 The Future of Assisted LivingLinks + Resources:Carefree Cottages of MaplewoodCost of Long Term Care Calculator - this is an AMAZING resource where you can estimate the cost of care in your specific area of the United States. Powered by CarescoutState of MN OmbudsmanMinnesota Bill of Rights for Assisted LivingA Place at the Table - an example of adult foster care. National Domestic Workers AllianceCaring Across GenerationsMolly Mogren Katt - explore more of Molly’s personal + creative work!