Episode 72 -Suzi Dent -Life Changed Overnight When I had to Be A Rolf Harris Witness Bridging Psychology & Spirituality

In this episode I interview the lovely Suzi Dent . We met at London's Mind Body and Spirit Festival UK. She was speaking about midlife and showcasing her new book 60 is the new 40 on Amazon https://www.amazon.co.uk/60-New-40-Ul...In this episode we explore the direction Suzi's life took after the role she played as a key witness that led to the jailing Rolf Harris, a prolific abuser and her journey to healing . How it shocked the world and peoples innocence .We also explore how many woman over 40 experienced a level of conditioning that made it hard for them to challenge or speak out and even complain about the way they were being treated and the impact that this had on her, her toxic marriage and the many paths to healing.Time pointsThe reason we know Suzi Dent . We She starts with setting the scene and context to her role in the Rolf Harris case and the shock waves it caused around the worlds of finding that Rolf Harris had been such a large part of our lives growing up and the shock to discover he had assaulted many woman . His on stage persona hid a darker personality and how that shock stole the innocence of people who couldn’t believe what had actually happened The also was part of influencing The MeToo movement that fights against sexual harassment and assault #MeToo intended to expose the magnitude of sexual harassment and assault.09.00 Suzi sees the TV interview and comes forward to the police11.11 Suzi "woman were raised and how they were pressured to not speak out and not upset people.13.00 Mel "the culture at the time and how difficult it felt to be In some environments , how we were conditioned to be quite and not stand up" and carry the shame from the past issues and heal15.00 "We wernt raised like that" - "The jobs we were "allowed to do” "How we were expected to dress (Madmen) Mad Men (TV Series 2007–2015) - IMDb18.00 “We had to get married -we wernt inspired to have a job or a career “20.00 "My mums experience of being a single woman in the 60’s 70’s and 80’s and the messages we received.23.00 “We were told how we should dress “25.00 "Takes us a long time to realise how programmed we are 29.30 Suzi shares her marriage " the toxic relationship" , his verbal and emotional abuse and how her conditionings and the coping mechanisms she set up until it took its toil on her and the impact on her physical health.30.00 “Freedom” and open to new experiences “Figuring out who I was and what I wanted and what toxic masculinity does to feminine energy and how we need help to move forward “43.00 “I loved him more than I loved me” “No hope”47.00 Change and transformation “Dreaming big and the Miss Earth Beauty Pageant “55.00 “Shamanic Healing and Ancestral support” “forgiveness and Healing “58.00 “Self esteem confidence and authenticity “1.01 "Psychological issues ,fear of feeling , spirals and what stops us seeking help” "When we reach mid life, what does it mean? "A new way of looking at life "1.05 "Bravery “ tools to move forward and inner child healing”110 "New way of looking at the world and putting ourselves first "1.09 "Narcissism and parenting "120 "We still give up what we love because we dont teach empowerment " "Communication and Putting on your super power"to see the full account of suzi's input into the trial of Rolf Harris see James English You Tube Show #jamesenglish #suzident #domesticabuse #emotionaabuse #childhood #conditioning #marriage #toxicrelationships #toxicparents #therapy #healing #shamanism #stonehenge