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EPISODE · Sep 3, 2025 · 35 MIN

Episode 76: Ditching your "filters"

from The Habit Lab · host Jenna Zint

What happens when someone says “I miss you” and you instantly feel defensive? Or when a simple “sure” makes you think you’re being pushy? Those reactions aren’t random—they’re filters distorting what you hear.In this episode, I share how the stories we tell ourselves hijack conversations and trigger us into REACTING instead of thoughtfully responding. Through personal examples and practical strategies, you’ll learn to spot your own trigger phrases, approach them with curiosity, and rewrite the stories that fuel disconnection.Instead of hearing accusation, discover how to receive words at face value—and find freedom, deeper connection, and less unnecessary pain.Jenna's Setting Up Your Summer Course- Buy the course here-Stay tuned for the "2x Group Coaching Calls" packages Our Pre-Marriage E-course is like coaching from your couch. What’s inside?✅ 6 bite-sized video sessions (30 min each)✅ 50-page workbook to guide real conversations✅ Topics on communication, conflict, intimacy, money & moreDon’t just plan your wedding—prepare for your marriage!➡️ Buy the course  [click here] --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

What happens when someone says “I miss you” and you instantly feel defensive? Or when a simple “sure” makes you think you’re being pushy? Those reactions aren’t random—they’re filters distorting what you hear. In this episode, I share how the stories we tell ourselves hijack conversations and trigger us into REACTING instead of thoughtfully responding. Through personal examples and practical strategies, you’ll learn to spot your own trigger phrases, approach them with curios...

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