Episode 78: Making Peace With Chaos

Send us Fan MailWhat if the calm you crave isn’t on the other side of order, but on the other side of a breath? We’re recording from a hotel after a sewage fiasco, juggling diagnoses, car trouble, and a total routine reset—and we’re getting honest about how we’re staying steady when everything wobbles.We dig into the difference between external chaos and the internal storm that keeps your mind spinning. You’ll hear how we use identity-based change to stop reinforcing “everything is crazy,” and instead anchor to phrases that open space for better choices. From laughter as a nervous system reset to a simple four-count breath, we walk through the tools that move you from overwhelm to agency. We also get tactical about boundaries that break obsessive loops—like setting a 10-minute timer before checking your phone—and how small, consistent actions create real relief.Chaos can be a bulldozer or a compass. We share stories of forced changes that led to better work, safer homes, and healthier patterns, and we unpack why reframing disruption as direction doesn’t deny pain—it gives it purpose. You’ll learn how naming your inner saboteurs (hello, hyper-vigilance) helps you soothe rather than fight the parts of you trying to protect you. And for the moments that are simply too big, we talk about surrender: handing over what you can’t control while choosing the next right step you can.Support the showFollow us on Instagram, leave a review, and share your experiences – we'd love to hear what resonates with you! And don't forget we have a PREMIUM channel as well on Apple! Bonus episodes to help you heal faster.Ready to take your healing journey up a notch? Our new audio course will walk you through the real foundations that have to come first before anything else can stick—awareness, emotions, nervous system regulation, boundaries, and trust.The 1% shift that takes you from zero to one. And from one, everything else becomes possible. Learn more HERE. Follow our Instagram page Follow Kira on IGFollow Denise on IGClick here to download Kira's free self-love hypnosis audio or her free gut guide Book a complimentary consult with Kira