episode 85 - following your intuition in your 30s

In this week's episode, Diane shares her transformative journey through various cities, including her experiences living in London, New York, and Mexico City. The discussion delves into cultural differences, personal growth, and that hit of energy we get from new beginnings. Diane reflects on her dating experiences, the challenges of being single, and the importance of maintaining a positive mindset in relationships. The conversation highlights the balance between masculine and feminine energies in dating and personal interactions, offering insights into navigating the complexities of modern relationships. In this engaging conversation, the speakers explore the complexities of modern dating, the influence of media on relationship expectations, and the importance of community and connection. They discuss the challenges of navigating dating apps, the significance of in-person interactions, and the impact of moving to new places on friendships. The conversation culminates in reflections on what it means to live well in your 30s, emphasizing self-discovery and following one's curiosity. Takeaways Diane's journey through different cities has shaped her perspective on life. Cultural differences between London, New York, and Mexico City influence social interactions. Embracing new experiences can lead to personal growth and fulfillment. The energy you bring to a new place can significantly impact your experiences. Dating in New York was a positive experience for Diane compared to London. Being happily single can be a rewarding phase of life. It's important to enjoy the dating process rather than dread it. Finding emotional connections is key to meaningful relationships. Balancing masculine and feminine energies can enhance dating experiences. Maintaining a positive mindset is crucial in navigating relationships. The media shapes our perceptions of relationships and soulmates. Women often analyze relationships more deeply than men. Lowering standards on dating apps can open up new possibilities. Finding humor in bad dates can shift your dating energy. Maintaining friendships across distances requires acceptance of change. Creating community spaces for dating can enhance connections. In-person interactions are crucial for genuine connections. Living in a new country presents unique challenges and anxieties. It's important to communicate differently with various friends. Living well in your 30s means exploring who you are. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:46 Journey Through Cities: From Scotland to Mexico City 04:38 Cultural Comparisons: London, New York, and Mexico City 09:58 The Energy of New Beginnings: Embracing New York 15:20 Dating Experiences: From London to New York 20:51 Finding Happiness in Being Single 25:29 Navigating the Dating Landscape 30:11 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies 31:34 The Impact of Media on Relationships 35:51 Navigating Dating Apps and Lowering Standards 40:02 The Importance of In-Person Connections 46:00 Creating a Dating Community 50:00 Challenges of Moving and Maintaining Friendships 59:04 Living Well in Your 30s