Episode fourteen: The one about how to change someone's mind

Send us Fan MailThe Not So Breakfast Show Listen, laugh and learn as we share our latest thoughts about staying relevant, contemporary leadership and doing life right.Ish Cheyne is the Head of Fitness in New Zealand for global fitness juggernaut Les Mills. Sacha Coburn is the COO of Coffee Culture, a leading group of boutique coffee shops, and the co-founder of thecompanyyoukeep.co.nz. Episode fourteen– the one about how to change someone’s mind You can’t! But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t think about how to influence others. Today’s show is inspired by a question from Arthur in the Netherlands who asked about how to have conversations with a friend who’s fallen into the trap of believing Covid conspiracy theories. As we experience increased polarisation about topics, a post-factual world and a rampant global pandemic, we talk today about how to find common ground, how to practise empathetic curiosity, and how not to bombard people with your truth bombs. We also learn that Sacha has almost no influence over Ish at all, Sam (Ish’s daughter) is a driving legend and Netflix is not just for the cool kids.  Links Arthur Gerards – watch til the end!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rUFnZmoF3uU Marianne Elliot and Dr. Jess Berentson-Shawhttps://ddec1-0-en-ctp.trendmicro.com:443/wis/clicktime/v1/query?url=https%3a%2f%2fwww.theworkshop.org.nz&umid=ccdbb557-654b-4bfe-aeca-329d51b1681d&auth=7c73db9ae66f853d5210c3e10e592c5b58c3d358-8a219710ad232005968894b883ee7d3671e571be Jamie Siminoff – Founder of Ringhttps://www.inc.com/magazine/201808/emily-canal/how-i-did-it-jamie-siminoff-ring.html The Queen’s Gambithttps://www.oprahmag.com/entertainment/a34493538/queens-gambit-true-story/If you haven’t come across it yet, Working Genius is one of the simplest, most practical models I’ve seen for helping teams understand how they actually get work done. Not personality. Not fluff. Just clarity on where people thrive — and where they get frustrated. If you’re planning your next team day, offsite, or work event, I’d love to bring this to your crew. Find out more at IshCheyne.com