[Eps.41] The Anxious-Avoidant Trap: Why Anxious & Avoidant Partners Are Attracted to Each Other

For a deeper dive into the attachment styles, check out the archetype series at the beginning of this podcast! Ever wondered why you feel SO pulled to avoidant people and why avoidants choose anxiously attached partners when they need so much space? This episode is for you! In this episode, we talk about, ✨ Why anxious and avoidant people are attracted to each other ✨ The cycle of push-pull and why it’s hard to get out ✨ The subconscious beliefs of both attachment styles ✨ Whether this dynamic can actually work ✨ How to break free of getting into this cycle again! ✨ …and so much more! ➡️ DM me and let me know your biggest takeaway from this episode! Love, Samantha xx ____________________________________________________________________ If you enjoyed the episode, It would mean the absolute world to me if you would take a second to rate & share this podcast. And don’t forget to connect with me on social media, share this podcast episode with anyone who needs to hear it and share it on your IG stories & tag me: https://www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver/ ____________________________________________________________________ ___________________________________________________________________________________ Freebies: 7 Day Breakup Detox Guide: https://relationshiprehab.mykajabi.com/detox-checklist LIVE MASTERCLASS: How to Let Go of Your Ex [Jan 6th 2026]: **https://relationshiprehab.mykajabi.com/let-go-of-ex** Healing Anxious Attachment Guide: https://relationshiprehab.mykajabi.com/healing-anxious-attachment Anxious to Anchored Masterclass: https://relationshiprehab.mykajabi.com/anxious-to-anchored Workshops & Courses 1:1 Coaching Program: https://relationshiprehab.mykajabi.com/coaching Website: https://relationshiprehab.mykajabi.com SOCIAL MEDIA: Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshiprehab Instagram: www.instagram.com/samireedcleaver TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@samireedcleaver