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EPISODE · Nov 19, 2025 · 43 MIN

Equity, Attraction, and Other Things We’re Not Supposed to Talk About

from Messy Liberation: Feminist Conversations about Politics and Pop Culture · host Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown

Get "Liberate Your Business" by Becky Mollenkamp https://liberateyourbusiness.com/In this week’s episode, Becky and Taina dive straight into the deep end of real-life mess: school-district politics, equity vs. “equality,” the exhausting reality of advocating inside systems designed to fail kids, and the tender, complicated terrain of queer marriage, desire, and boundaries. This one is personal, raw, a little chaotic, and very us. Becky shares what it’s like preparing to speak at a school board meeting about inequitable resource distribution in her son’s district — while naming the discomfort of doing that work as a white parent in a predominantly white room. Then Taina opens up about the complexities of being pansexual, married to a lesbian wife, and navigating attraction, boundaries, and emotional intimacy when your partner is also your best friend.In This Episode, We Discuss:• The messy reality of advocating for equity in a school system still clinging to “equal” funding• Why diversity in schools matters — and what’s at risk when privileged families leave• The tension of being a group of white moms pushing for equity without falling into saviorism• How to strategically communicate about equity in political spaces• The emotional labor of teachers and staff in under-resou🎤rced schools• Taina’s coming-out journey, late blooming, and the truth about queer identity development• What happens when you marry the first person you date (and why that’s not the red flag people think it is)• Navigating attraction, boundaries, and “is this appropriate to say to my wife?” moments• Why partners cannot and should not be expected to meet every emotional need• Cheesecake, green beans, and other metaphors we’ll never be able to forget🎤 Proud members of the Feminist Podcasters Collective — join us at: https://feministpodcasterscollective.com

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