Examining The Cloaked Jezebel - Is your woman the “First Lady” of your relationship?

The Jezebel archetype is often depicted as the over sexualized femme fatale, however her allegiance to her weaker counterpart Ahab often goes under examined. Jezebel is as much the mastermind as she is the coddler for the moral failings of her husband. The Jezebel/Ahab dynamic creates a feedback loop where the desire to enable someone into loving you (using various manipulation strategies) becomes evidence of a lack of connection to higher consciousness. The “First Lady” is a common title given to women married to men in prestigious positions of power. In the context of Jezebel, she was the woman opposite of a powerful, but morally weak king. She used his authority to do her evil bidding. In the context of modern relationships, it is our inability to take accountability and our own narcissistic tendencies that can be used against us to prevent forward momentum. In a Jezebellic dynamic this would be done through a partner’s enablement of unproductive habits, communication styles, lifestyle choices, etc.