Exposing the raw parts of our relationship

Caliah and I have been wanting to do this for awile now. Talk about our struggles, how we worked though and help others in the process. We talk about how we met, what we were going though as individuals that gave us issues in our relationship. Caliah had issues with giving so much of herself only in hopes to get change from her partner. This ultimately let her to being more and more unfulfilled, until she realized she was unconsciously seeking transactional love and took the responsibility to make the change. I was dealing with issues of insecurity, thinking that every next woman I met was going to fix my problems. I was unhappy, I had issues I needed to deal with, I had to make me happy. We both made changes to make our relationship work. it hasn't been easy but it's worth it.