Faith, Attachment & Fear of Abandonment - Why Consistency Matters More Than Perfection

If love has ever felt like anxiety, this conversation is for you.In this episode, we talk about why so many of us learned to chase perfection—not because we’re controlling or “too much,” but because somewhere along the way, love felt inconsistent. And when love feels unpredictable, our nervous systems do what they can to stay safe.We explore how fear of abandonment shows up in relationships and even in our faith, why performance can never create real security, and how consistency—not perfection—is what actually heals.Because healing doesn’t happen when you finally get everything right.It happens when love proves it will stay.If this month stirred something in you, this episode is a gentle exhale—a reminder that you are not broken, you adapted. And you don’t have to rush your way into safety.You were never meant to be perfect to be loved.🤍