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EPISODE · Jul 9, 2025 · 13 MIN

False Narratives Damaging your Relationship?

from Turn it Up! Marriage Tips and Tools · host by Kelly DuPée

The stories we create about our partner's actions can significantly impact our relationships. Jumping to conclusions and assuming the worst can breed unnecessary problems such as resentment. Cultivating better communication skills is crucial for understanding and addressing concerns effectively, ultimately strengthening the bond and fostering healthier relationships.In this video, I address one of the most destructive patterns in relationships—false narratives. As an experienced pastor, police chaplain, and Christian marriage coach, I explain how these false stories formed in our minds can erode trust and weaken marriages. I offer a five-part Biblical solution called the PAUSE principle to help couples break free from this toxic habit. The steps include pausing to reassess assumptions, asking questions, understanding your spouse's perspective, speaking the truth in love, and extending grace and forgiveness. Watch till the end for a life-changing practical solution and a special offer!Here's the link to my free Couple's Communication Guide: https://www.turnitup.coach/communicationguide00:00 Introduction: The Power of Narratives in Relationships01:27 Understanding False Narratives03:19 The Three Reasons We Create False Narratives04:51 The Biblical Solution: The Pause Principle09:44 Applying the Pause Principle11:55 Conclusion: Transform Your MarriageFor more on this, check out this video - How to Ask your Spouse for what you Really want and Needhttps://youtu.be/2sUcdK5dPCgCall or text me at 626-804-1731 for a free, no obligation Strategy call or use https://tidycal.com/kdupee1/30-minute-clarity-call

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