Fatherhood, Identity, and the Grind of Podcasting: A Conversation with Rory

In this episode of Spirits and Stories, Donald sits down with Rory — a podcaster, coach, and father who has built multiple successful shows while helping men navigate the challenges of being dads. Rory explains that although he is not a veteran — and wished he could have been — he has spent years working closely with veterans and recognizes the identity shift many struggle with when returning to civilian life. Rory opens up about the difficulties fathers face when transitioning from structured roles into the unpredictable world of parenting. He shares how his own experiences shaped his coaching approach, why he stays in his lane by focusing on fatherhood rather than military issues, and how he supports men who feel lost or overwhelmed. The conversation also dives into the reality of podcasting: the workload, the lack of shortcuts, the constant editing and promotion, and the moment Rory realized his shows had grown into a true business. He breaks down how each of his podcasts came to life — including his speaking-focused show that gives new speakers a chance to practice their talks on camera. Throughout the episode, Donald and Rory talk about personal growth, overcoming hesitation, handling negativity online, and using creative projects as a form of therapy and purpose. This is a grounded, honest conversation about fatherhood, identity, podcasting, and rebuilding confidence, told directly from Rory’s lived experience.