Fatness & Gender Identity w/ Eli The Gender Doula

In episode 28 of the podcast Kayla Stansberry (she/her) interviews Eli (he/him), the gender doula, exploring the intersections of gender identity, fatness, and autism. We discuss Eli's journey to becoming a gender doula, the complexities of navigating gender dysphoria, and the impact of societal expectations on body image. The conversation highlights the importance of self-exploration and the need for supportive guidance during transitions in identity. Eli shares insights on how to approach gender expression and the significance of understanding the nuances of personal experiences in relation to societal norms.TakeawaysEli identifies as a gender doula, supporting individuals through gender exploration and transition.The journey to understanding one's gender identity can be complex and intertwined with other identities, such as fatness and autism.Personal experiences of body image and gender dysphoria can differ significantly from societal perceptions.The pandemic prompted many individuals to explore their gender identity more freely due to reduced societal pressures.Fatness can complicate the experience of gender identity, affecting how individuals are perceived and how they express themselves.There is a need for more gender doulas to support individuals navigating their gender journeys.Understanding the difference between body image issues and gender dysphoria is crucial for personal clarity.Self-exploration and permission to experiment with gender expression are vital for individuals in larger bodies.The societal stigma surrounding fatness and transness can create additional challenges for individuals exploring their identities.Creating a supportive environment for discussions about gender and body image can help individuals navigate their experiences more effectively.Gender Doula Resources Get full access to Fat Positive Therapist (Kayla) at kaylastansberry.substack.com/subscribe